Topic: we are staying together, but three years later
dontknow72 Member Member # 35772
Posted: 11:24 PM, September 6th (Friday)
I can only have sex with him if I drink. I hate that I will never ever have a normal sex life. I hate sex with him. I fake liking it and I have to drink to even do it. :(me-bw
dday- Sept 11, 2010
Posts: 113 | Registered: Jun 2012
Morhurt Member Member # 40166
Posted: 1:56 AM, September 7th (Saturday)
Tell him. You need to be honest. Me: BS
M: 15 years
4 lovely daughters
Working to rebuild.
Posts: 955 | Registered: Aug 2013 | From: Canada
whatnow8 Member Member # 36576
Posted: 9:50 AM, September 7th (Saturday)
((dontknow72)) I'm so sorry for what you are going thru, I can relate a lot. It sucks when you are so far out and still having these issues.
wtf?? How insane does your life have to get that you want to polygraph your freaking HUSBAND. ~ OldCow18
It's hard to make a decision when you're too tired to hold on and too in love to let go. ~ unknown
Posts: 178 | Registered: Aug 2012 | From: midwest
Mousse242 Member Member # 6330
Posted: 10:30 AM, September 7th (Saturday)
Why are you staying? Are you still in counseling? You do need to talk to him about this.
Posts: 5473 | Registered: Jan 2005 | From: Chicago
petite71 Member Member # 36475
Posted: 10:37 AM, September 7th (Saturday)
I'm so sorry you're feeling this way 3 years out Sometimes I fake it,but most of the times I enjoy it. But I faked it sometimes before I found out about the A.
You really need to tell him & keep open communication between you 2.....this is a must.
1st DD 03/24/2012 2nd DD 07/13/2012 TT A. in 2002 same girl when we were dating.
Status:Getting Stronger...we can get through this & are healing together
LTA 10 yrs EA/PA 9 times. friends with benefits.
Us..Together 12 yr