User Topic: we are staying together, but three years later
Member # 35772
Default  Posted: 11:24 PM, September 6th (Friday)

I can only have sex with him if I drink. I hate that I will never ever have a normal sex life. I hate sex with him. I fake liking it and I have to drink to even do it. :(

dday- Sept 11, 2010

Posts: 113 | Registered: Jun 2012
Member # 40166
Default  Posted: 1:56 AM, September 7th (Saturday)

Tell him. You need to be honest.

Me: BS
Him: FWS
M: 15 years
4 lovely daughters
Working to rebuild.

Posts: 951 | Registered: Aug 2013 | From: Canada
Member # 36576
Default  Posted: 9:50 AM, September 7th (Saturday)

((dontknow72)) I'm so sorry for what you are going thru, I can relate a lot. It sucks when you are so far out and still having these issues.

wtf?? How insane does your life have to get that you want to polygraph your freaking HUSBAND. ~ OldCow18

It's hard to make a decision when you're too tired to hold on and too in love to let go. ~ unknown

Posts: 178 | Registered: Aug 2012 | From: midwest
Member # 6330
Default  Posted: 10:30 AM, September 7th (Saturday)

Why are you staying? Are you still in counseling? You do need to talk to him about this.

Posts: 5473 | Registered: Jan 2005 | From: Chicago
Member # 36475
Default  Posted: 10:37 AM, September 7th (Saturday)

I'm so sorry you're feeling this way 3 years out Sometimes I fake it,but most of the times I enjoy it. But I faked it sometimes before I found out about the A.
You really need to tell him & keep open communication between you 2.....this is a must.

1st DD 03/24/2012 2nd DD 07/13/2012 TT A. in 2002 same girl when we were dating.
Status:Getting Stronger...we can get through this & are healing together
LTA 10 yrs EA/PA 9 times. friends with benefits.
Us..Together 12 yr

Posts: 126 | Registered: Aug 2012 | From: USA
Topic Posts: 5