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erzulie
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Member # 3293
Default  Posted: 7:36 PM, September 7th (Saturday)

My father and my stepmother - whom I hadn't told yet. He went there to see them. My Dad just told me, after he had left.

And I guess he is on his way to see my mom.

I cannot control the seething anger.

Help.


A saying for my SI Family: "We may not have it all together, but together we have it all".

Fooled twice - almost exactly 10 years apart.


Posts: 3377 | Registered: Jan 2004 | From: California
Morhurt
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Member # 40166
Default  Posted: 7:46 PM, September 7th (Saturday)

Oh man. What was the purpose of his visit?

I'm sorry he's being such an ass.


Me: BS
Him: FWS
M: 15 years
4 lovely daughters
Working to rebuild.

Posts: 943 | Registered: Aug 2013 | From: Canada
erzulie
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Member # 3293
Default  Posted: 7:59 PM, September 7th (Saturday)

The purpose of his visit? I don't know. To pre-emptively cast himself in a positive light, to manipulate them so that they would encourage me to reconcile with him?

I feel like I'm going to have a heart attack. And now he's off to break my mother's heart, too?


A saying for my SI Family: "We may not have it all together, but together we have it all".

Fooled twice - almost exactly 10 years apart.


Posts: 3377 | Registered: Jan 2004 | From: California
Morhurt
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Member # 40166
Default  Posted: 8:05 PM, September 7th (Saturday)

Ok, that's bad. How pathetic. Can you phone your mom to warn her? Ask her to leave her house and maybe come to yours?
:(


Me: BS
Him: FWS
M: 15 years
4 lovely daughters
Working to rebuild.

Posts: 943 | Registered: Aug 2013 | From: Canada
Too_Trusting
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Member # 99
Default  Posted: 8:24 PM, September 7th (Saturday)

Is he telling them the truth? WTH? He needs to talk to you and leave your parents out of this. They are your support group and you should decide when or if to bring them into this.


"Anyone perfect must be lying; anything easy has its cost. Anyone plain can be lovely; anyone loved can be lost." Barenaked Ladies

Posts: 2481 | Registered: Jun 2002 | From: North Carolina
Broken6
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Member # 40347
Default  Posted: 8:42 PM, September 7th (Saturday)

I think your parents will support you regardless of what he says. It wasn't his place to break the news to them though. They will see through his bull. Hugs and so sorry you have to deal with his cheating twice. Hugs


The grass isn't greener on the other side, it is greener where you water it.

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