User Topic: The guy next door is a cheater,....
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Default  Posted: 6:17 PM, September 8th (Sunday)

So my daughters friend slept over the other day.She tells me at dinner,oh yea btw,did I ever tell you that a few years ago we used to live right next to you guys? I say no,I didnt know. We only have been in this house like 4 years. She says,we propably just had moved out,when you moved in. I said its such a lovely couple next door and its a nice house,how come you moved? She says,well the lovely woman who lives there now is the bitch the guys cheated with on my mom.Wow,I thought. Then she goes on explaining how they then were in a shelter for a while until her mom had it all sorted out, heart breaks for her and her mom and her sibilings for what they went trough because he felt like cheating,not once thinking. So you see,you never know whats going on behind closed doors,...

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Default  Posted: 7:15 PM, September 8th (Sunday)



Think of the haters in your life as sandpaper; they’ll scratch you up time and time again but in the end you’re polished, smooth, and spotless..while they end up useless

We make a living by what we get, but we make a life by what we give.

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Default  Posted: 7:25 PM, September 8th (Sunday)

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Default  Posted: 7:46 PM, September 8th (Sunday)

Things are never what they seem. (I.e. lovely couple not really so lovely)

Poor girl and her family.

[This message edited by sullymeishadomi at 7:46 PM, September 8th (Sunday)]

People tell you exactly who they are...why expect them to be what they are not ....will be divorcing the selfish creep.

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Member # 38458
Default  Posted: 7:57 PM, September 8th (Sunday)

That is horrible! People can be so awful to one another.

Things are never what they seem. (I.e. lovely couple not really so lovely)

This has really been in the back of my mind lately. Everytime I see a couple holding hands or an old couple shopping together I think "That's sweet...unless that's a married person out with their AP. Or maybe that old lady is the mistress that the old man left his wife and kids for 30 years ago."

Yeah...this mess has totally tainted my view of the world.

Me-29 Starting over
ExWH-29 Probable NPD, PA, manchild
3 beautiful young children
DDay 1/20/13 Admits PA
No remorse so NO R. DIVORCED! 9/2013

Posts: 541 | Registered: Feb 2013 | From: USA
Member # 34875
Default  Posted: 7:59 PM, September 8th (Sunday)

That's right, you never know... Of course , I didn't even know what was going on in " my own household " much less, the neighbors.

married 21 yr

Posts: 175 | Registered: Feb 2012
Member # 38044
Default  Posted: 8:22 PM, September 8th (Sunday)

Ah, yes....adultery is alive and well. Just on a quick note of KNOWN adultery at my place of work a full 10% (6 out of 60) people working their have either been a WS or BS....and that is just the common knowledge one.

It does not include some very suspicious behavior of some co-workers.

It is sobering. My fWS recently pointed out a pitfall that I did not fully notice...but felt uncomfortable about. I have plans to operate differently with regards to this situation from that point forward.

I tell you is heartbreaking now to hear of any adultery anywhere...between people I like or people I don't is the most destructive emotional thing that can be invited into a marriage and, subsequently, into a family.

Many innocent people traumatized by it.

How did you react when you heard this young girl confess this? It had to have been really tough.

God be with us all.

ME: 42 BH, I don't PM female members
SHE: 38 EA
Married: 15 years
Together: 17 years
D/Day 9-10-12
NC: 10-25-12
NC: Broken early November 2012, OM not respond
2 girls; 7 and 10
Fear is payments on debts you have not

Posts: 4039 | Registered: Jan 2013 | From: Central Missouri
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Default  Posted: 5:54 AM, September 9th (Monday)

About 10 yrs ago while working, I passed a customers house. She was bawling. She said her so had done something horrible and soon he would pay. She said she had big male friends or family or something. On the heels of moving out, a female and her son moved in.

Last yr that same man, moved out. I remember him very angry and that second female not giving a car.

Saturday, I went to the bank. One of the last people in this town who is actually friendly to me seemed wouldnt even look at me. I figured she jumped on Team ho and man-ho. Oh, well. Thats life ya know.

Well, three hours later, as im driving home I am almost sure I see her bf...walking very cozy through town with another female.

A yr ago another townie left town. About six months ago, a male with the same last name as thr townie (not a very common last name) moved in with a lady acrossed the street from where I work (single non-working mother living on alimony).

People tell you exactly who they are...why expect them to be what they are not ....will be divorcing the selfish creep.

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