I've never been very intuitive about dreams or knowledgeable about their analysis.
Neither did I. Online dictionary of dream interpretation doesnt really help as you have very personal interpretation of the world. The way you associate things is very much dependent on you.
Within a couple of months after Dday I started dreaming about a guy who had rejected me. Very frequently. I freaked out thinking WTH!! I cant deal with this NOW.. why HIM of all the ppl.. Do I still have feelings for him blah blah blah.. It really bothered me.
After a couple of IC sessions we figured out I have assoicated him with Rejection. Not reciprocating my feelings.
At that time I was so focused on CL and just did not want to accpet what was happening. CL was completely withdrawn and I kept trying to make a connection with him. Every time he was angry I used be scream in my head .. No.. no.. no.. this cant be happening.
When I started analyzing my dream about this guy... I realized I did not want face the reality. I did not want to accept that my feelings were not reciprocated by CL and they may nver be. This might be the end of the relationship. That realization took a huge toll on me. I had to foucs on me for a while.
The guy stopped appearing in my dreams so frequently. Now when sometimes he does I can link it to whats happening in my real life.
It was never about HIM anyway.