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Phoenix1
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Member # 38928
Default  Posted: 7:54 PM, September 11th (Wednesday)

Filed on August 23rd and the hearing was set today for October 19th! There was a delay due to some judicial conferences going on that backed up the docket a bit (only required a 30 day wait period). That will be 9 days shy of 7 months from final DDay.

The end is officially in sight now and I will finally have that parasite surgically removed permanently from my life!


BS - Me
XPOS - too many OW/OCs over 20+yrs
Kids - DDs 23,18 -DS20 Deceased
M Dissolved 2013

This above all: to thine own self be true, and it must follow, as the night the day, thou canst not then be false to any man ~ Shakespeare, Hamlet


Posts: 1173 | Registered: Apr 2013 | From: Rising out of Hell's ashes!
Nature_Girl
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Member # 32554
Default  Posted: 7:56 PM, September 11th (Wednesday)

How do people around here get their D's so quickly? I'm happy for you & jealous all at the same time.


Me = BS (Stay-at-home-mom)
Him = EX-d out (abusive troglodyte NPD SA)
3 tween-aged kids
Together 20 years
D-Day: Memorial Weekend 2011
2013 - I DIVORCED HIM, I'M FREE!
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RBOJpIwF47Y

Posts: 9810 | Registered: Jun 2011 | From: USA
Phoenix1
Member
Member # 38928
Default  Posted: 8:10 PM, September 11th (Wednesday)

I am just super lucky to live in a state that only requires a 30 day waiting period for uncontested dissolutions. THAT makes the difference.

POS waived his right to notice and appearance, so it will be interesting if he surfaces in any capacity (the info is public record in the court website)... I wouldn't put it past him, and I will be ready to celebrate and exhale that night if all goes well!

Sorry yours is dragging out NG...


BS - Me
XPOS - too many OW/OCs over 20+yrs
Kids - DDs 23,18 -DS20 Deceased
M Dissolved 2013

This above all: to thine own self be true, and it must follow, as the night the day, thou canst not then be false to any man ~ Shakespeare, Hamlet


Posts: 1173 | Registered: Apr 2013 | From: Rising out of Hell's ashes!
Pass
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Member # 38122
Default  Posted: 8:15 PM, September 11th (Wednesday)

I hear you NG. Here in Ontario, you have to be separated for a year before you can file. The whole thing often ends up taking a minimum of 18 months. I want to get away LONG before that!


Loyal spouse: Me; Disloyal spouse: The Princess
Two sons: Now 11 and 14
DDay: Nov 15, 2012
Separated: Mar 2, 2013 after 17 year marriage, now divorcing!

The best thing about hitting rock bottom is that everything after that looks fucking fabulous


Posts: 2080 | Registered: Jan 2013
PurpleBirch
Member
Member # 39170
Default  Posted: 8:20 PM, September 11th (Wednesday)

I'm in Ontario too Pass. I told them that WH confessed to infidelity, so why couldn't I just go straight for divorce??? They said that on the chance he contests, I would need solid proof. Ugh. I would just like it to be done. Cheating is a deal-breaker for me for sure.


Me: BS (32)
Him: WH (31)
Married 3 years.
Confessed to PA April 21 2013.

DS (6), DS (18 months)

Aug 30 2013 He gives me back his ring with an ultimatum: "Get over it or get out".

Status: Done like dinner


Posts: 277 | Registered: May 2013 | From: The frozen North, eh?
Dawn58
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Member # 37656
Default  Posted: 9:58 AM, September 12th (Thursday)

My mediation is set for Oct 30 - Dday was nov 25. Praying we come to an agreement, want to just move on with my life and be happy.


I got into the marriage, because I loved him. I got out of the marriage, because I love me.

Posts: 479 | Registered: Nov 2012 | From: Southern California
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