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hexed
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Revenge  Posted: 10:10 AM, September 12th (Thursday)

It has been a looooong time since I fetl 'FUCK YOU' about my X.

WELL FUCK YOU X AND THE GUILTS TRIPS YOU LAID ON ME OVER THE YEARS ABOUT MONEY!!

I spent hours and hours and hours trying make our budget work while you were galavanting around the mountains with your buddies. Yeah I would have liked to have gone and played in the mountains you fuckwad.

I explained the budget to you sooooooooooooo many damn times but your leeeetle pea brain (the only thing smaller is your penis)couldn't comprehend basic math unless it was 60* angle her legs made when you said hi.

Yeah you fuckwit all those damn toys you buy they cost money. Yeah you loooooove to brag about how much better off you are financially now. Yeah that's b/c I walked away with most of the debt just so I could walk away. Yeah I've struggled a lot. Yeah I made some bad financial decisions. I didn't need you to remind me how much cash you have now.

Guess what you fucking moron. You should have been paying the IRS. Yeah you had spending cash but damn you weren't so responsible after all. Guess I did know what the fuck I was doing.

All those times I had to get creative so you could by beer, toys and whatever else, yeah now you know what it took to make that shit happen and why we were in debt. All that money you brag about saving... guess you're gonna get to pay the IRS now fucker.


But that's just a lot of water
Underneath a bridge I burned
And there's no use in backtracking
Around corners I have turned

“Many of us crucify ourselves between two thieves - regret for the past and fear of the future.” -foulton oursler


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ajsmom
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Default  Posted: 10:59 AM, September 12th (Thursday)

((((hexed))))

Saw your other post - could he really do jail time?

Asking for a friend...errr...I mean, just curious because guess who is probably in the same boat...

AJ's MOM


Fidelity isn't a feeling...it's a choice.

"Truth has no special time of its own. Its hour is now - always." - Albert Schweitzer
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Me: BW - Him: 200+ # tumor removed 7/09
DS - 31 - Yikes!


Posts: 21041 | Registered: Dec 2007 | From: Been Through Hell...On My Way Back
hexed
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Default  Posted: 11:03 AM, September 12th (Thursday)

Oh AJ-- how did we marry the same man? that is so not like us!

I doubt it. I suspect that he is being dramatic. I suppose technically he could.

He won't give me straight answers. He wants to pry in to my business for some reason but won't come out tell me what he really needs. I'm guessing he needs something from 2008 that I might have.

I'm also guessing he hasn't filed in years, never adjusted his withholdings (the reason he has all the extra $$$ every month). Now he owes them tons for the last 5 years. He mentioned $15K a while ago. Who knows.

I just don't want to be caught up in his mess. I'm not giving him nothing and the final decree cannot come fast enough.


But that's just a lot of water
Underneath a bridge I burned
And there's no use in backtracking
Around corners I have turned

“Many of us crucify ourselves between two thieves - regret for the past and fear of the future.” -foulton oursler


Posts: 8439 | Registered: Apr 2008
ajsmom
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Member # 17460
Default  Posted: 11:18 AM, September 12th (Thursday)

Yep.

We definitely married twin sons of different mothers.


Fidelity isn't a feeling...it's a choice.

"Truth has no special time of its own. Its hour is now - always." - Albert Schweitzer
____________________________________________
Me: BW - Him: 200+ # tumor removed 7/09
DS - 31 - Yikes!


Posts: 21041 | Registered: Dec 2007 | From: Been Through Hell...On My Way Back
better4me
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Default  Posted: 5:43 PM, September 13th (Friday)

Just wanted to say that I think this is an epic rant! Good for you!
This:
Unless it was the 60* angle her legs made when you said hi.
is pure gold


DDay 11/17/2010 BW:52
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Thelastknight
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Default  Posted: 6:01 PM, September 13th (Friday)

I like your style!


"Pain is weakness leaving the body"

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Two kids 5 and 2


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Bluebird26
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Default  Posted: 7:46 PM, September 13th (Friday)

great rant

I feel the same damn way. My xwh is withholding his 1/2 share of the medical expenses for our son but just went out and brought a new car.

I can feel a court date coming on soon


"Loving someone should not mean losing you. Love empowers you. It shouldn't erase you. - Thelma Davis.

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