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rachelc
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Default  Posted: 1:17 PM, September 12th (Thursday)

My sister's birthday is today. I have leaned on her mightily this year. She isn't the best gift giver and I don't care! She gives in so many other ways.

I sent her a Columbia fleece vest! My Mom started an email to all of us three girls and told what she is sending her. I added what I was sending her. My other sister says this and includes everyone:
I'm not sending her jack shit because she never sends me jack shit.

They have never gotten along too well. I can barely speak to my "jack shit" sister as she is so judgmental of me.

I want to reply but don't know what to say. Or, crickets?


his Ddays: 2/10, 7/11
my Ddays: 1/12, 4/12 broken NC 12/12

me: 47
him: 51
4 kiddos in lower 20's

“Courage is the price that life exacts for granting peace."


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lieshurt
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Default  Posted: 1:31 PM, September 12th (Thursday)

I wouldn't say anything. Let them hash it out.

Posts: 13356 | Registered: Mar 2007 | From: Houston
MovingUpward
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Default  Posted: 1:33 PM, September 12th (Thursday)

don't feed the drama llama


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Think of the haters in your life as sandpaper; they’ll scratch you up time and time again but in the end you’re polished, smooth, and spotless..while they end up useless

There are shortcuts to happiness, and dancing is one of them-Vicky Baum


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nowiknow23
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Default  Posted: 1:34 PM, September 12th (Thursday)

Chirp chirp, rachel. I wouldn't step into that for all the money in the world.


You can call me NIK

There's always failure. And there's always disappointment. And there's always loss.
But the secret is learning from the loss, and realizing that none of those holes are vacuums.
- Michael J. Fox


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MissesJai
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Default  Posted: 1:35 PM, September 12th (Thursday)

crickets all day, sister. Save your sanity.


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Nobody can make you feel inferior without your consent...

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rachelc
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Member # 30314
Default  Posted: 1:40 PM, September 12th (Thursday)

yes, she wants a reaction from us, although birthday sister will not respond in any way, I know her.

But, what a crappy thing to do. I guess my limited contact with judgmental sister continues to be the right thing to do....


his Ddays: 2/10, 7/11
my Ddays: 1/12, 4/12 broken NC 12/12

me: 47
him: 51
4 kiddos in lower 20's

“Courage is the price that life exacts for granting peace."


Posts: 3663 | Registered: Dec 2010
still2suspicious
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Member # 31722
Default  Posted: 2:05 PM, September 12th (Thursday)

oh my!! There's soooo many things to say to her.

The best? Crickets!

(they just hate that, don't they??)


Me: BS
Him: WH
DDay: LTEA

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travels
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Default  Posted: 2:10 PM, September 12th (Thursday)

I'm limited contact with my judgmental/toxic sister. Best decision I ever made.

She likes to send texts that need no reply. Yet, she always expects an "ok" reply for everything. The rebel that I am, I don't send the "ok." I know it drives her crazy, but I don't care.


When one door closes, another door opens. It's the journey through the hallway that sucks.

Rest In Peace Bo the Beagle 1996-2011


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