New Beginnings
User Topic: I'm doing well in my healing.
Member # 16935
Default  Posted: 2:35 PM, September 12th (Thursday)

So, it's been a while since my divorce. The first year I can't tell you what I did, where I went or what happened. I was in such a fog and was just happy to make it from one day to the next.

There was a time where when I found out that something bad had happened to my x I was ecstatic, applauded and wanted to make sure that the Karma Bus had plenty of gas in the tank so that it would keep running and would not just run over him but would even back up on him.

I recently found out that the x is again having bad things happening to him. I found that my first thought wasn't of joy and happiness. Instead I felt sorry for the guy. He's a grown man and hasn't really accomplished anything in his life. He has nothing and nor does his live in floozy.

I no longer even want to hear about his misfortunes. I don't want to know and I don't care. I have nothing but pity for him.

I told all of this to my ic. She looked at me smiled and said, b2, you have come a long way in your healing process. You are more then well on your way. I looked at her, smiled and thoughtfully responded, yes, yes, I do believe you are right.

Hmm,.... there was a time when I thought I would never get here.

Posts: 2041 | Registered: Nov 2007
Member # 14003
Default  Posted: 2:38 PM, September 12th (Thursday)


Walk away from anything or anyone who takes away your joy. Life is too short to put up with fools.

Posts: 13806 | Registered: Mar 2007 | From: Houston
Member # 14866
Default  Posted: 2:51 PM, September 12th (Thursday)

Yay and thanks for not inciting the f&g folks with other bad ideas in the last 10 months.

Best of luck on your continued healing


Think of the haters in your life as sandpaper; they’ll scratch you up time and time again but in the end you’re polished, smooth, and spotless..while they end up useless

We make a living by what we get, but we make a life by what we give.

Posts: 52586 | Registered: Jun 2007 | From: Big Blue Nation
Member # 38122
Default  Posted: 6:41 AM, September 13th (Friday)

That sounds fantastic! Congratulations for reaching this point.

Loyal spouse: Me; Disloyal spouse: The Princess
Two sons: Now 11 and 14
DDay: Nov 15, 2012
Separated: Mar 2, 2013 after 17 year marriage, now divorcing!

The best thing about hitting rock bottom is that everything after that looks fucking fabulous

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