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newlysingle
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Member # 38735
Default  Posted: 10:05 PM, September 12th (Thursday)

Today is my sweet, baby boy's first birthday. I spent the day with him before Gnat and Hello Kitty got the kids overnight. I have them all weekend and am having a birthday party on Sunday which they are NOT invited to.

I was thinking back to a year ago when I gave birth to him. It was such a happy time for us. I never in a million years would have imagined that anything like this would have happened. I would never have dreamed I'd be a single mom before he turned one.

Ironically, I didn't feel that sad about it. I sort of just thought about it in a matter of fact way. It's been a tough year, but I'm closer to my kids than ever. The outpouring of support I've received has been humbling. I've got wonderful friends and family and I have a really full life. Life is much richer than I could have imagined a year ago.

I know I've still got a lot of work to do on this road to healing, but I also know I've come a long ways. I'm feeling blessed tonight and really hopeful about my future.


BW - Me (37)
XWH - (37) The Gnat
OW - Some dumb whore he picked up in another state and moved here here. Known as Hello Kitty.
M for 8 years, together for 10
1 DD (5), 1 DS (1 year)
Dday 3/13
Divorced 9/20/13

Posts: 808 | Registered: Mar 2013
dmari
Member
Member # 37215
Default  Posted: 10:24 PM, September 12th (Thursday)

Happy birthday to your baby boy!! Good job mommy! It was so nice to read your post ~ keep moving forward!!


Me (BS): 42 Children: DD 18, DS 15
Mediation date: 7/10/14 and 7/22/14
Final final court date: Oct 2014

Posts: 2112 | Registered: Oct 2012
Nature_Girl
Member
Member # 32554
Default  Posted: 11:02 PM, September 12th (Thursday)

Oh, first birthdays are such a big deal to me! Happy Birthday, Baby Boy!


Me = BS (Stay-at-home-mom)
Him = EX-d out (abusive troglodyte NPD SA)
3 tween-aged kids
Together 20 years
D-Day: Memorial Weekend 2011
2013 - I DIVORCED HIM, I'M FREE!
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RBOJpIwF47Y

Posts: 9238 | Registered: Jun 2011 | From: USA
npain
Member
Member # 33539
Default  Posted: 8:44 AM, September 13th (Friday)

Happy Birthday to your Baby boy!


S,beginning D

Posts: 508 | Registered: Oct 2011 | From: New York
Topic Posts: 4