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Yakamishi
Member
Member # 38230
Default  Posted: 7:00 AM, September 13th (Friday)

A year ago today I was happy. A year ago today I was content. A year ago today I was in a 19 year happy marriage.

A year ago tonight....not so much.

I truly try to stay in the present. But today....its gonna be tough.


Me: BH
Her: WW Mrs.yaka
Kids:4
Variouse clues to EA. WW promised it would stop.
D-Day of EA 9/13/2012 2:01PM found 2 yrs of text messages, confessed to EA
D-Day of PA: confessed on 9/22/12 11:53 PM. Worst moment of my life

Posts: 184 | Registered: Jan 2013 | From: Massachusetts
AFrayedKnot
Member
Member # 36622
Default  Posted: 7:23 AM, September 13th (Friday)

(((Yakamishi)))


BS 39
fWS 36 (SurprisinglyOkay)
DD DS
A whole bunch of shit that got a lot worse before it got better. Reconciled from the A's but still working hard for a better tomorrow.
"Knowing is half the battle"

Posts: 2427 | Registered: Aug 2012
jo2love
Moderator
Member # 31528
Default  Posted: 7:38 AM, September 13th (Friday)

(((Yakamishi)))

Sending strength.




Posts: 30724 | Registered: Mar 2011
Blobette
Member
Member # 36519
Default  Posted: 8:55 AM, September 13th (Friday)

Oh, I know. Your whole world changes. It casts a shadow on everything and makes you question everything you thought you knew about yourself and about the person you thought you were closest to.

((( Yakamishi )))


BS (me): 49
WS: 50
Married: 25 yrs
Kids: 2
OW: Co-worker, 7 yr LTA
DD 8/1/2012, Working on R

Posts: 1036 | Registered: Aug 2012
Rebreather
Member
Member # 30817
Default  Posted: 11:39 AM, September 13th (Friday)

*fist bump*

Hang in there today.


Me BS
Him WH
2 ddays in '07
Recovering.
"The cure for the pain, is the pain." -Rumi

Posts: 5861 | Registered: Jan 2011
Sadwife222
Member
Member # 40050
Default  Posted: 11:44 AM, September 13th (Friday)

So sorry for you. There's nothing that compares to the horror of the discovery, except maybe the lies that follow.
(((())))


Me BW, Him WH
DD #1, caught 4/12/13
DD #2, tells me the whole truth, 5/21/13
DD #3, TT until 8/9/13 then full disclosure w/timeline
DD #4, 8/26/13, OW texts me more info, he tells me the whole truth
DD # 5, 9/11/13, he tells me the whole truth??

Posts: 125 | Registered: Jul 2013
LosferWords
Guide
Member # 30369
Default  Posted: 2:16 PM, September 13th (Friday)

(((Yakamishi)))

We're here for you to lean on. Sending you strength.


Posts: 4562 | Registered: Dec 2010
Amber13
Member
Member # 40505
Default  Posted: 3:07 PM, September 15th (Sunday)

Hope you got through it okay. Onwards and upwards...

Posts: 59 | Registered: Aug 2013
Topic Posts: 8