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User Topic: Kind of Sort of MC today...
Crumbled324
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Member # 33902
Default  Posted: 7:12 AM, September 13th (Friday)

Going to a Marriage Fitness Bootcamp 2 day program tonight at the local church.

This is as close as we have come to MC so far, and DDay was late March of 2011.

She has been working on doing the right things since Dec of 11, had the joy of continued TT and broken NC via a secret cell phone in the 9 months prior.

My religious faith was obliterated on DDay, but I guess I'm seeking some kind of foundation for my daughter. We adopted her as an infant and at some point she will need to turn to something bigger to comfort her unanswered questions about who she is and where she came from.

Not really looking for my wife to have a "come to Jesus" moment.

Just need some positive mojo for the next couple days.


BH: 46
fWW: 45
Beautiful 8 year old daughter
Married 22 years, Together 28 - High School Sweethearts
Reconciling

Posts: 87 | Registered: Nov 2011 | From: Michigan
sisoon
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Member # 31240
Default  Posted: 10:59 AM, September 13th (Friday)

I hope the bootcamp gives you what you need. My thoughts will be with you.


fBH (me) - 70 (22 in my head), fWW (plainsong) - 65+, Married 45+, together since 1965
DDay - 12/2010
Recovered, not yet fully R'ed
I share my own experience because it's the only experience I know, not because I'm a good model.

Posts: 10344 | Registered: Feb 2011 | From: Chicago area
Skan
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Member # 35812
Default  Posted: 3:43 PM, September 14th (Saturday)

Kick ass there! Much mojo!


Imagine a ship trying to set sail while towing an anchor. Cutting free is not a gift to the anchor. You must release that burden, not because the anchor is worthy, but because the ship is.

D-Day, June 10, 2012



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