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GabyBaby
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Default  Posted: 1:16 PM, September 16th (Monday)

I (think) I mentioned in a previous post that XWH moved to a different town recently, which means I now have my neighborhood back. He used to live a few blocks away, which was great for the kids to walk back and forth between the households, but was hard on me initially due to his proximity.

I didn't know the reason for the move, but assumed it was either because of work or a woman. I didn't ask him directly, nor did I care overmuch, save how he planned to get our son to school on the mornings after his overnights.

My current hubby mentioned the reason to me over the weekend. XWH moved in with his current girlfriend. That in itself doesnt bother me, but what struck me as pathetic on XWH's part is that he told my husband, but didn't tell me.
He knew that hubby would most likely tell me, saving XWH the trouble of looking me in the eye and doing it himself.

XWH is still a chicken shit pathetic excuse for a human being. I truly pity his girlfriend. I seriously doubt she's the only female in his life, since the word "monogomous" is not in XWH's vocabulary.


Me - 40s
SorryInSac - WH#2 - 40s. DDay 7/12/14
Married 4yrs, together 7yrs total

DD(21), DS(18, PDD-NOS)
6 Furkids (4 Dogs, 2 Cats)

WXH (serial cheater, 12+ OW)
Legally married 18yrs, together 16.5yrs

Note: I edit often for clarity/typos.


Posts: 6339 | Registered: Dec 2009 | From: California
Deeply Scared
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Default  Posted: 2:29 PM, September 16th (Monday)

Gaby...

You're so much better off without him in your life. He'll never change.


"Don't give up, the beginning is always the hardest." My Mom:)

My tolerance for stupid shit is getting less and less.


Posts: 197207 | Registered: May 2002
GabyBaby
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Member # 26928
Default  Posted: 3:14 PM, September 16th (Monday)

I agree DS.
I dont even think about him except on the occassions that I have to email/text in reference to one of our kids.

However, every now and then, I get these little blips/reminders of what I used to deal with in my former marriage. It does serve as a reminder in how far removed from that crazy train I've moved in the last several years.


Me - 40s
SorryInSac - WH#2 - 40s. DDay 7/12/14
Married 4yrs, together 7yrs total

DD(21), DS(18, PDD-NOS)
6 Furkids (4 Dogs, 2 Cats)

WXH (serial cheater, 12+ OW)
Legally married 18yrs, together 16.5yrs

Note: I edit often for clarity/typos.


Posts: 6339 | Registered: Dec 2009 | From: California
Deeply Scared
Administrator
Member # 2
Default  Posted: 3:21 PM, September 16th (Monday)

I'm so glad you're no longer living in Crazy Town...you deserve so much more than anything he ever could have given you


"Don't give up, the beginning is always the hardest." My Mom:)

My tolerance for stupid shit is getting less and less.


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