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brknwmn
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Content  Posted: 5:38 PM, September 16th (Monday)

I am really proud of WH (when do you start calling them FWH??) neways...after our rough week last week we had another big heart to heart. he was feeling really down on himself thinking there was no hope for our relationship anymore and he was tired of hurting me...i spelled out exactly what i needed one more time.

That i was going to have horrible days and he needed to comfort me...it's his job...he caused this mess. That when i have nightmares or questions that I will need him to answer anything and everything to ease my mind.

he's been doing everything i've asked of him and much more. i'm really proud and happy that he's working so hard finally.

it' gives me hope for the future...that maybe it actually is possible to survive this...


Me: 26 BS Him: 29 WH
Together since Dec 2005
officially done 10-30-13

Never be ashamed of a scar. It simply means you were stronger than whatever tried to hurt you.


Posts: 78 | Registered: Sep 2013 | From: United States
LosferWords
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Default  Posted: 7:42 PM, September 16th (Monday)

That's great news. Thanks for sharing the hope!

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Skan
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Default  Posted: 7:44 PM, September 16th (Monday)

I''m so happy for you!

And he becomes an "F"Wh when he proves, through his consistent actions to YOU, that YOU grant him the title.


Imagine a ship trying to set sail while towing an anchor. Cutting free is not a gift to the anchor. You must release that burden, not because the anchor is worthy, but because the ship is.

D-Day, June 10, 2012



Posts: 4926 | Registered: Jun 2012 | From: So California
brknwmn
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Member # 40603
Default  Posted: 10:24 PM, September 19th (Thursday)

Thank you guys. We're still going strong. Earlier while trying to work things out we would do well and then crash...but no crash and I hope we don't.

I'm hoping that he'll get the FWH soon.


Me: 26 BS Him: 29 WH
Together since Dec 2005
officially done 10-30-13

Never be ashamed of a scar. It simply means you were stronger than whatever tried to hurt you.


Posts: 78 | Registered: Sep 2013 | From: United States
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