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imagoodwitch
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Default  Posted: 10:46 AM, September 18th (Wednesday)

Can you help me figure out a nice way to tell someone to piss the f**k off and shut the f**k up?

Really struggling today.

It's a don't poke the bear kind of day, and she keeps poking the bear because she thinks it's funny.

TIA


I am just your ordinary average everyday sane psycho supergoddess - Liz Phair

Don't keep dancing with the Devil and wonder why you are still in Hell.

It's all shits and giggles until someone giggles and shits.


Posts: 5407 | Registered: Mar 2009 | From: Munchkinland
lieshurt
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Default  Posted: 10:50 AM, September 18th (Wednesday)

I'm the last person to give this type of advice


Choices, Chances, Changes.....You must make a Choice to take a Chance or your life will never Change.

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MovingUpward
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Default  Posted: 10:50 AM, September 18th (Wednesday)

If you are the bear in question then go with "Not today" and then if it doesn't work a "piss the f**k off and shut the f**k up"

If the bear is someone else, then try redirection. Pull them aside and let them know.


AKA Moo

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imagoodwitch
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Default  Posted: 10:54 AM, September 18th (Wednesday)

I am the bear today, on the bright side, I realize that I am the bear and have given fair warning.

This person thinks it's fun to poke the bear.


I am just your ordinary average everyday sane psycho supergoddess - Liz Phair

Don't keep dancing with the Devil and wonder why you are still in Hell.

It's all shits and giggles until someone giggles and shits.


Posts: 5407 | Registered: Mar 2009 | From: Munchkinland
lynnm1947
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Default  Posted: 10:57 AM, September 18th (Wednesday)

"Piss the f**k off and shut the f**k up" sounds like the best approach. Said with a wide disingenuous smile. And followed by, "Please."


Age: 64..ummmmmmm, no...............65....no...oh, hell born in 1947. You figure it out!

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Sad in AZ
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Default  Posted: 12:16 PM, September 18th (Wednesday)

You're a bear; bite her head off and be done with it (and her!)


I solemnly swear that I am up to no good.

Posts: 20229 | Registered: Jun 2009 | From: Upstate NY
welcome14
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Default  Posted: 12:46 PM, September 18th (Wednesday)

If you wear glasses, a no fail move is to lower your head slightly and peer wordlessly over the top of your glasses until said bear poker slinks away. Works like a charm. Works on my kids also....added bonus.

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[This message edited by welcome14 at 12:47 PM, September 18th (Wednesday)]


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I will love the light for it shows me the way, yet I will endure the darkness for it shows me the stars.


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whyohwhyohwhy
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Default  Posted: 1:37 PM, September 18th (Wednesday)

Diplomacy is telling someone to go to hell in such a way that they look forward to the trip!

Good luck!


what did I ever do to deserve this?

Me:47 BS
Him: X, 51 PA SA NPD?
2 kids; DD14, DD8 divorced


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