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mof2
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Member # 40287
Default  Posted: 6:59 PM, September 19th (Thursday)

He signed the divorce decree.....almost finally over!!!! Now I just have to sign them and file. After he signed and sent them, he had the audacity to send me the following email. Really??? Is this to make me feel better or you????

I really want to apologize for my behavior toward you regarding this whole thing, there is absolutely no excuse for it. I also thank you for doing every bit of the leg work on this. I do realize this to be the case and honestly appreciate everything you have done. I wish I would have been more help and less headache.


BW - Me 43
WH - Cheating Swine 43
Dday - February 12, 2013....a week before I was to give birth to the child I miscarried and 12 days before our 5th anniversary.

Posts: 312 | Registered: Aug 2013 | From: DFW
StillLivin
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Member # 40229
Default  Posted: 7:26 PM, September 19th (Thursday)

Crickets.
A..hole
Ok, I don't know your STBXH, but I know mine.
He would honestly convince himself he was being sincere and ever so repentant. In reality it would be to assauge his sense of guilt so he can continue to stick his d!@* in Shrek without going limp first!


I don't need further confirmation of what a fuckwit he is. I already have plenty, thanks very much. -SBB
D: 7/2/2014

Posts: 2141 | Registered: Aug 2013 | From: AZ
Phoenix1
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Member # 38928
Default  Posted: 7:31 PM, September 19th (Thursday)

Doesn't it feel great when you see that signature? It was quite euphoric for me!

What he emailed is exactly the way my POS thinks. Anything delusional to make the world keep thinking he is Mr. Wonderful and oh so appreciative of everything I have done! Yet no mention about what he did to get us in this situation to begin with!

Congrats!


BS - Me
XPOS - too many OW/OCs over 20+yrs
Kids - DDs 22,17 -DS20 Deceased
M Dissolved 2013

This above all: to thine own self be true, and it must follow, as the night the day, thou canst not then be false to any man ~ Shakespeare, Hamlet


Posts: 960 | Registered: Apr 2013 | From: Rising out of Hell's ashes!
mof2
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Member # 40287
Default  Posted: 7:58 PM, September 19th (Thursday)

Exactly StillLivin. I didn't respond. Live with your guilt and shame while I move on with my life and find what I deserve!

And yes Phoenix1, I didn't realize how happy I would be. I was grinning from ear to ear. It's almost over!!!!!! YAY!!!!


BW - Me 43
WH - Cheating Swine 43
Dday - February 12, 2013....a week before I was to give birth to the child I miscarried and 12 days before our 5th anniversary.

Posts: 312 | Registered: Aug 2013 | From: DFW
nowiknow23
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Member # 33226
Default  Posted: 12:15 PM, September 20th (Friday)

Yay!!


You can call me NIK

Wise men talk because they have something to say; fools, because they have to say something.
- Plato


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