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Pass
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Default  Posted: 11:27 AM, September 20th (Friday)

I was just rummaging through Plenty of Fish, and found a woman who lists first as her criteria: You must be willing to take criticism, and work to improve.

Ha! No thanks. Spent 17.5 years married to that.

But at least she's honest!

[This message edited by pass at 11:27 AM, September 20th (Friday)]


Loyal spouse: Me; Disloyal spouse: The Princess
Two sons: Now 11 and 14
DDay: Nov 15, 2012
Separated: Mar 2, 2013 after 17 year marriage, now divorcing!

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ajsmom
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Default  Posted: 11:32 AM, September 20th (Friday)

Maybe it's her!

AJ's MOM


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AlwaysBeenStrong
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Default  Posted: 11:32 AM, September 20th (Friday)

LOL at least she is honest, but something tells me...she will be single for awhile


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meaniemouse
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Default  Posted: 11:33 AM, September 20th (Friday)

Hmmm . . .what a great way to help prospective matches weed through the profiles! I wonder how many responses she is getting. Like "Oh my gosh you are EXACTLY what I'm looking for! I have so many faults and have been waiting so very patiently for someone like you to point them out and give me the motivation to fix them and morph myself into someone you could love. Please, please email me as soon as possible so we can get started."


Act as if what you do matters. It does. William James

Posts: 2125 | Registered: May 2006 | From: Midwest
UndecidedinMA
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Default  Posted: 2:18 PM, September 20th (Friday)

So she is announcing - I am a bitch who will tell you what you should do/say etc..


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OW - DBC Xwife
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Posts: 1005 | Registered: Oct 2011 | From: MA
Pass
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Default  Posted: 2:31 PM, September 20th (Friday)

So are y'all saying I shouldn't ask her out?

If I were to remain true to my past behaviours, this is the woman for me!


Loyal spouse: Me; Disloyal spouse: The Princess
Two sons: Now 11 and 14
DDay: Nov 15, 2012
Separated: Mar 2, 2013 after 17 year marriage, now divorcing!

The best thing about hitting rock bottom is that everything after that looks fucking fabulous


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Pass
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Default  Posted: 2:32 PM, September 20th (Friday)

And, baby, do I ever have shit to start working on.


Loyal spouse: Me; Disloyal spouse: The Princess
Two sons: Now 11 and 14
DDay: Nov 15, 2012
Separated: Mar 2, 2013 after 17 year marriage, now divorcing!

The best thing about hitting rock bottom is that everything after that looks fucking fabulous


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h0peless
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Default  Posted: 5:41 PM, September 20th (Friday)

My ex wrote something really similar into our wedding vows. I should have run for the fucking hills!

Posts: 1731 | Registered: Sep 2012 | From: Baja Arizona
persevere
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Default  Posted: 6:03 PM, September 20th (Friday)

That's hysterical!


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Together 9 yrs
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missherlots
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Default  Posted: 8:29 PM, September 20th (Friday)

as A Buddhist I know that in life there is suffering and it is cause by desire and greed among other things. I was never told that it will be cause for a woman and her demands to obey. LOL


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UndecidedinMA
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Default  Posted: 8:38 PM, September 20th (Friday)

If I were to remain true to my past behaviours, this is the woman for me!

Oh hell yes - she is a gem!!


ME - BSO
Him - FWSO
OW - DBC Xwife
DDAY 09/14/11 ONS w/DBCxWOW with 4 mos EA
Solidly in R

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SBB
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Default  Posted: 6:12 PM, September 21st (Saturday)

And, baby, do I ever have shit to start working on.


I may have reached a point where I'd piss on him if he was on fire.... eventually!!

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