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User Topic: Weekend Plans
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Default  Posted: 5:30 PM, September 20th (Friday)

I actually have plans this weekend - kind of.

Tonight is my usual Friday night - take out and the couch. Only I need to do school work tonight because I have plans Saturday & Sunday.

Saturday I'm taking a ride north for a nature expo and hopefully some fishing. It's supposed to rain, but I don't care. I haven't been fishing all summer.

Sunday I'm meeting an old friend in the city for some lunch/dinner & hanging out. Then there is the Steeler game.

When one door closes, another door opens. It's the journey through the hallway that sucks.

Posts: 3777 | Registered: Jul 2008 | From: PA
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Default  Posted: 5:54 PM, September 20th (Friday)

I just went to a wine tasting at a local liquor store with a friend and now I'm about to make dinner and settle down with a book and some beer.

Saturday will be a longish run in the morning, then volunteering at the parrot rescue most of the day. Relaxing in the evening.

Sunday I'm seeing a movie with friends, then my parents are coming up and we're touring some local landmarks.

It will fly by!

Me: BW, divorced, now fabulous and happy!

Married: 11 years, no kids

Character is destiny

Posts: 3409 | Registered: Dec 2011
Member # 26928
Default  Posted: 5:56 PM, September 20th (Friday)

Hubby wanted to go wine tasting this weekend, but since a)we've been out and about for the last two weekends and b) I'm feeling very anti-social, we're going to stay in and veg.

Me - 42
SorryInSac (WH#2) - 47. DDay 7/12/14
Married 4, together 7yrs total
Status - Stick a fork in me...

DD(21), DS(18, PDD-NOS)
6 Furkids - 4 dogs, 2 cats

WXH (serial cheater, 12+ OW) - Legally married 18yrs

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Posts: 6540 | Registered: Dec 2009 | From: California
Member # 31468
Default  Posted: 6:08 PM, September 20th (Friday)

I'm home for the night - it's rainy tonight - great veg at home weather. Some salmon, white wine and a movie are in my future.

Tomorrow hitting the gym in the morning, work around the house, and a friend's bday party in the afternoon.

Sunday, get a runn in, some work to do for the office on Monday, and work around the house.

Me: BW-44
Him: XWH-44
Together 9 yrs
DDays: 1/10/2011
Status: Divorced 4/27/11

Above all, be the heroine, not the victim. - Nora Ephron

It is our choices...that show what we truly are, far more than our abilities.
- J. K. Rowling

Posts: 4611 | Registered: Mar 2011 | From: Texas
Member # 1330
Default  Posted: 6:46 PM, September 20th (Friday)

Tomorrow, yardwork and preparation for a performance on Sunday. Sunday is performance day, so it rather blows the entire day. Tonight it is just hanging with the critters. GDM will come up tomorrow and be with me through the concert and after.


FBS: Married 20 years, 2 daughters 25 and 22. Divorced by the grace of GOD.
D-Days: 2/23/93; 10/11/97; 3/5/03
Ex & OW Broke up 12-10
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Posts: 29666 | Registered: Apr 2003 | From: Massachusetts
Member # 30742
Default  Posted: 6:57 PM, September 20th (Friday)

Getting a pedi with DD11 right now. Staying in with my girls to tonight, watching movies. Gym tomorrow morning, soccer game and BBQ in the afternoon, sleepover for DD11 at night. Sunday church and the maybe a coffee date.

Temporarily independent with the whole world at my feet.

Posts: 1260 | Registered: Jan 2011 | From: California
Member # 22870
Default  Posted: 7:22 PM, September 20th (Friday)

Worked late tonight. Tomorrow is a 5k benefit for a friend- Willie is going with me.

Sunday, maybe go see a movie. Then, the steelers on Sunday evening.

Overall, a pretty lazy weekend.

You can stuff your sorries in a sack, mister. -George Costanza
There is a special place in hell for women who don't help other women. - Madeleine Albright

Posts: 7772 | Registered: Feb 2009 | From: Western PA
Member # 36697
Default  Posted: 7:30 PM, September 20th (Friday)

I'm watching my step-brother's football game on TV tomorrow morning and then going over to my grandparents' house for tech support and interrogation.

I'm planning on taking my dogs for a hike on Sunday and I might start playing through San Andreas again on my new laptop.

Posts: 1736 | Registered: Sep 2012 | From: Baja Arizona
Member # 38735
Default  Posted: 10:07 PM, September 20th (Friday)

I started tonight off with being contacted by my attorney right before she left at 5 to let me know that my divorce is finalized! I met up with some girlfriends for dinner and drinks. I'm now home on the couch because I think I'm coming down with the cold DS had this week.

Tomorrow, I was supposed to hit the gym in the morning, but if I'm not feeling well, I'll probably skip it. I have a memorial service to attend in the afternoon for my friend's fiance. Should be interesting, because she discovered after he died that he had been unfaithful to her for the past year. Not many of us attending know the truth, so we're there to support her while his family and friends talk about what a great guy he was.

Sunday, I'll probably head to my congregation in the morning and then get some stuff done around the house.

BW - Me (37)
XWH - (37) The Gnat
OW - Some dumb whore he picked up in another state and moved here here. Known as Hello Kitty.
M for 8 years, together for 10
1 DD (5), 1 DS (1 year)
Dday 3/13
Divorced 9/20/13

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Member # 34697
Default  Posted: 11:17 PM, September 20th (Friday)

Had to run into the city to pick up my race packet for a 20 mile run I'm doing on Sunday. But first, I tried to burn down a gas station...was unsuccessful. Got home and finished up my graduate coursework that was due tonight.

Tomorrow is another CC meet. Then home to write a couple of IEPs, more graduate coursework, and somehow I have to fit in laundry, grocery shopping, give the house its once a week cleaning.

Sunday is the 20 mile long run up along the lakefront. And hopefully I'll feel like grading papers while watching some football before I go save Teslet from the bowels of chaos.

"Thou art the son and heir of a mongrel bitch." --King Lear

Posts: 4687 | Registered: Jan 2012 | From: Indiana
Sad in AZ
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Default  Posted: 11:28 PM, September 20th (Friday)

Went solo to a bar tonight. Tomorrow night an old friend from high school is hosting a Short Film Festival. Sunday--who knows!

I solemnly swear that I am up to no good.

Posts: 20291 | Registered: Jun 2009 | From: Upstate NY
Member # 30742
Default  Posted: 11:43 PM, September 20th (Friday)

Sad, how was it to go solo to a bar? I can't go to any local bar because I don't want to run into xSO and his new honey.

However, I have been thinking about heading to the other side of town and going it alone. I am a bit apprehensive about this.

Care to share?

Temporarily independent with the whole world at my feet.

Posts: 1260 | Registered: Jan 2011 | From: California
Member # 10552
Default  Posted: 11:47 PM, September 20th (Friday)

Going on another date tomorrow with the roses dude... I might even get to go if work would leave me alone for more than ten minutes.

I so wish I was kidding.

Travel light, live light, spread the light, be the light. ~ Yogi Bhajan

Posts: 15415 | Registered: Apr 2006 | From: Now an AZ girl
Member # 29289
Default  Posted: 6:58 AM, September 21st (Saturday)

Picnic in the mountains, laundry and work ... It's going to be a great weekend!

Enjoy everyone!

Posts: 387 | Registered: Aug 2010 | From: Back Home ... And feeling Great!!
Member # 27186
Default  Posted: 8:07 AM, September 21st (Saturday)


However, I have been thinking about heading to the other side of town and going it alone. I am a bit apprehensive about this.

My mom always went to pub like bars by herself. Just sit at the bar and talk with the bartender. A lot of the "regulars" also go solo and make great drinking company! When I turned 21, she brought me with her and I swear it was like cheers, I loved that place, lol!

I used to go to a dance club solo, but my sister was the bartender, lol. I'd hang out near her for awhile and usually run into someone I knew, or make a new friend. Go give it a try, my mom knew all the bartenders at our local pubs, and she never had to order because they already knew what she wanted, lol!

BS-34; WXH-32; DS8; DS3; OC3
DDay: SEPT 2008
Divorced: JUNE 2010

Posts: 318 | Registered: Jan 2010 | From: Indy
Member # 33129
Default  Posted: 11:26 AM, September 21st (Saturday)

Since my son is with the Dooosh this weekend I was supposed to meet up for drinks/apps after work last night with a special friend, but my 13 year old had friend drama so I cancelled on him to take her out to dinner! :) we went out for dessert after dinner and had a great time just hanging out together.

Today I will begin to tackle my garage. The marital house has a new family living in it as of Thursday (YEAH BABY!!!) so I had to get the last remaining items last weekend.. And my garage runneth over!!

Tonight I'm supposed to meet up with my friend, and 13 is going babysitting.

Tomorrow we will finish laundry, clean bathrooms, see a movie and then I have tests to grade. :) Weekends are too full and too short lately!!

divorced the Dooosh
even if you find your voice,
sometimes it does not matter anymore,
when you speak to a man who is deaf by choice.

Posts: 3612 | Registered: Aug 2011 | From: Happyville
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