My STBX stopped by the house tonight. With a friend (female, not the AP). She wanted to show off her house before it sells. She was shit faced, we hugged awkwardly and i was polite and accommodating. Small talk. Gave them each a beer. She held her cat for a while. I am so proud of myself. No regrets. No sympathy. I again offered her the house for what we owe. If I can walk away from this nightmare without a dime I will at least have peace. Divorced 7/11/14. New Beginning on the Gulf of Mexico. It's real nice.
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Melody3 Member Member # 33591
Posted: 11:11 PM, September 20th (Friday)
Good for you BS (me): 38
DDay: 10/2010 PA with OW. Married 13 yrs, Together 20
Two kids, 8 (daughter) & 4(son)
OW moves 10 min's away from kids and I with my Ex. 6/2014.
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jo2love Moderator Member # 31528
Posted: 1:25 PM, September 21st (Saturday)
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gma56 Member Member # 19595
Posted: 3:00 PM, September 21st (Saturday)
You did really well. Detachment is a blessing for us BSs still in pain from the betrayl.
Unfortunately, we do have to sometimes be cordial to them. Sending mojo she takes your house offer or it sells quickly.
Hugs, you're doing Ok!
[This message edited by gma56 at 3:35 PM, September 21st (Saturday)]
It's my life now, my choices, my mistakes to make and my victories to celebrate. His choices made me free of liars and betrayers in my life. I lost my family but gained a chance to be happy again.
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nowiknow23 Guide Member # 33226
Posted: 9:10 AM, September 22nd (Sunday)
((((sunsets)))) You have every right to be proud of yourself. Hope you are quickly able to be freed from the house one way or another. You can call me NIK
"Sometimes it takes a good fall to know where you really stand."