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sunsetslost
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Shocked  Posted: 10:15 PM, September 20th (Friday)

My STBX stopped by the house tonight. With a friend (female, not the AP). She wanted to show off her house before it sells. She was shit faced, we hugged awkwardly and i was polite and accommodating. Small talk. Gave them each a beer. She held her cat for a while. I am so proud of myself. No regrets. No sympathy. I again offered her the house for what we owe. If I can walk away from this nightmare without a dime I will at least have peace.


Divorced 7/11/14. New Beginning on the Gulf of Mexico. It's real nice.

Posts: 773 | Registered: Jul 2013 | From: The beach.
Melody3
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Member # 33591
Default  Posted: 11:11 PM, September 20th (Friday)

Good for you


BS (me): 38
WH: 38
Separated: 9/2/2010
DDay: 10/2010 PA with OW. Married 13 yrs, Together 20
Two kids, 8 (daughter) & 4(son)
Divorced 12/2013
OW moves 10 min's away from kids and I with my Ex. 6/2014.

Posts: 788 | Registered: Oct 2011 | From: Midwest
jo2love
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Member # 31528
Default  Posted: 1:25 PM, September 21st (Saturday)

(((sunsetlost)))

Posts: 35919 | Registered: Mar 2011
gma56
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Member # 19595
Default  Posted: 3:00 PM, September 21st (Saturday)

You did really well. Detachment is a blessing for us BSs still in pain from the betrayl.

Unfortunately, we do have to sometimes be cordial to them. Sending mojo she takes your house offer or it sells quickly.
Hugs, you're doing Ok!
Gma

[This message edited by gma56 at 3:35 PM, September 21st (Saturday)]


BW-Divorced
It's my life now, my choices, my mistakes to make and my victories to celebrate. His choices made me free of liars and betrayers in my life. That is priceless.

Posts: 20383 | Registered: May 2008 | From: Closer to where I want to be..
nowiknow23
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Member # 33226
Default  Posted: 9:10 AM, September 22nd (Sunday)

((((sunsets)))) You have every right to be proud of yourself. Hope you are quickly able to be freed from the house one way or another.


You can call me NIK

"If you carry joy in your heart, you can heal any moment."
- Carlos Santana


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