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sunsetslost
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Default  Posted: 1:26 PM, September 22nd (Sunday)

Going off the rail a bit today. Grief. Anxiety. I need some words of encouragement friends.


Divorced 7/11/14. New Beginning on the Gulf of Mexico. It's real nice.

Posts: 682 | Registered: Jul 2013 | From: The beach.
hopeandchange
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Member # 33287
Default  Posted: 1:44 PM, September 22nd (Sunday)

3 months post day-for me, this was my worst turmoil tough times followed but never as chaotic. Best wishes for a quick heal

H&C


BH (me, 50)
WS (her, 48)
Divorced!
3 wonderful teens
Heading for Happiness

Posts: 405 | Registered: Sep 2011
Must Survive
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Member # 34533
Default  Posted: 2:06 PM, September 22nd (Sunday)

((((Sunsetslost))))

Its ok SL, its hard and you don't believe it now, but it does get better. Time is that 4 letter word that is your friend.


Me BS
WS: Just a squished bug on the window of my life!
Divorcing, STBXH is engaged/living with OW#3

They have a choice: they can live in my new world, or they can die in their old one." Daenerys Targaryen


Posts: 654 | Registered: Jan 2012 | From: Must Survive
soveryweary
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Member # 32265
Default  Posted: 2:10 PM, September 22nd (Sunday)

((Sunset))


Divorced 1/3/14

Posts: 603 | Registered: May 2011
seekingright2013
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Member # 37991
Default  Posted: 2:15 PM, September 22nd (Sunday)

((((Sunsets)))

Do something good for YOU. Sorry it's a tough time right now.


BSO, 53
exWSO, who cares
DD: 11/18/12
DD2: 11/21/12
Kicked him to the curb 11/21/12
I tramp a perpetual journey.
― Walt Whitman, Song of Myself

Posts: 116 | Registered: Jan 2013 | From: Red State SE US
gonnabe2016
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Member # 34823
Default  Posted: 2:15 PM, September 22nd (Sunday)

This, too, shall pass.....


"Oh, what a tangled web we weave when first we practice to deceive." - Sir Walter Scott

In my effort to be *concise*, I often come off as blunt and harsh. Sorry, don't mean to be offensive.


Posts: 7672 | Registered: Feb 2012 | From: Midwest
sunsetslost
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Member # 39885
Default  Posted: 2:55 PM, September 22nd (Sunday)

I'm having friends over after work for fish tacos and backyard beers. I'm getting a little better. Thank you all for what you do.


Divorced 7/11/14. New Beginning on the Gulf of Mexico. It's real nice.

Posts: 682 | Registered: Jul 2013 | From: The beach.
nowiknow23
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Member # 33226
Default  Posted: 2:59 PM, September 22nd (Sunday)

Really try to stay in the moment with your friends, sunsets.

You've got to draw your strength from the highs so you can weather the lows.


You can call me NIK

Wise men talk because they have something to say; fools, because they have to say something.
- Plato


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Ashland13
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Member # 38378
Default  Posted: 5:00 PM, September 22nd (Sunday)

I'm sorry, Sunsets. It sucks.

One thing I did learn during those periods that stands out is, if you can find a way to not physically react to those emotions, like contacting WW during the emotional swings, it's a good thing.

FWIW, this was something I struggled with and it bit me.


Ashland 13

A person is a person, no matter how small. -Dr. Suess


Posts: 2129 | Registered: Feb 2013 | From: New England
SBB
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Member # 35229
Default  Posted: 5:14 PM, September 22nd (Sunday)

We've all been there friend. That damned rollercoaster.

The dips get fewer and farther apart, aren't anywhere near as intense and don't last anywhere near as long.

On those days I tried to remind myself that what I was feeling was normal and that I just had to get through this next hour, this next day. I made it to the other side, we all made it. You will too.

[This message edited by StrongButBroken at 6:27 PM, September 22nd (Sunday)]


Buzz- The word you are searching for is 'Space-Ranger.'
Woody- The word I'm searching for, I can't say, because there are Pre-school toys here.

Posts: 5383 | Registered: Apr 2012 | From: Australia
sunsetslost
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Default  Posted: 12:05 AM, September 23rd (Monday)

My friends,

I had an absolutely delightful evening with friends. The fish tacos were great, the company even better. So at peace right now. Thank you all for your support. I want to make all of you fish tacos and hug each and everyone of you. Blessings, strength and hope to,you all.


Divorced 7/11/14. New Beginning on the Gulf of Mexico. It's real nice.

Posts: 682 | Registered: Jul 2013 | From: The beach.
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