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sunsetslost
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Default  Posted: 8:14 AM, September 23rd (Monday)

Hey, I'm an uncle again. STBX sister in law just had a baby girl. Very happy for them, I honestly am. I drew the line at going to the hospital, though I wasn't invited. What I mean is I wouldn't have gone if I was. I'll likely never meet the lass but I'm genuinely happy for STBX's family.


Divorced 7/11/14. New Beginning on the Gulf of Mexico. It's real nice.

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Take2
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Default  Posted: 8:18 AM, September 23rd (Monday)

Thought you meant you were calling "Uncle" as to divorce crap. Whew! Glad to hear it is about a new baby!


"We must be willing to get rid of the life we've planned, so as to have the life that is waiting for us." Joseph Campbell...So, If fear was not a factor - what would you do?

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sunsetslost
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Default  Posted: 8:26 AM, September 23rd (Monday)

lol Take2. The divorce is on like donkey kong. She's out, I'm out. All the way.


Divorced 7/11/14. New Beginning on the Gulf of Mexico. It's real nice.

Posts: 734 | Registered: Jul 2013 | From: The beach.
Take2
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Default  Posted: 8:49 AM, September 23rd (Monday)

Sunset - I don't really believe in the Karma bus that runs people down - but I do believe in the Karma that blesses those who hang on to what is good, and true.

You've got a good heart. For those sunsets lost, I see sunrises found in your future.


"We must be willing to get rid of the life we've planned, so as to have the life that is waiting for us." Joseph Campbell...So, If fear was not a factor - what would you do?

Posts: 4112 | Registered: May 2009 | From: New England
sunsetslost
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Default  Posted: 8:57 AM, September 23rd (Monday)

That's the goal Take2. Thanks for the kind words


Divorced 7/11/14. New Beginning on the Gulf of Mexico. It's real nice.

Posts: 734 | Registered: Jul 2013 | From: The beach.
Ashland13
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Default  Posted: 2:46 PM, September 24th (Tuesday)

Not easy, Sunsets.

FWIW, I wanted to chime in and say that I think it's pretty great of you to acknowledge the person and their life change, considering where you stand in their life now. It takes courage to acknowledge that there's still a life that goes on in the X's world after we've been wronged by them and I just wanted to give you credit for that.


Ashland 13

A person is a person, no matter how small. -Dr. Suess

Perserverance and spirit have done wonders in all ages.

-George Washington


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sunsetslost
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Default  Posted: 5:47 PM, September 24th (Tuesday)

Thanks Ash. I've learned so much about myself these past months. I had a choice to make early on. I could allow myself to be a bitter and broken man or I could use the lessons I've learned and strive to become a better person. I learned at my core I am a kind and loving person. That's what I'm running with. Her loss.


Divorced 7/11/14. New Beginning on the Gulf of Mexico. It's real nice.

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