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katola1
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Default  Posted: 11:11 AM, September 23rd (Monday)

WS went on a three day trip with her friends. Sent me a picture she took with one of them. I zoomed into her left hand. She wasn't wearing her wedding rings?? Oops.


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Tred
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Default  Posted: 11:13 AM, September 23rd (Monday)

That's a bit awkward.


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Simple
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Default  Posted: 12:57 PM, September 23rd (Monday)

My fWH lost his first wedding ring and found it months later. What did he do? He gave it to one of his OW...


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Undefinabl3
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Default  Posted: 1:05 PM, September 23rd (Monday)

I know it seems petty to many people, but not wearing a ring to me is huge. DH doesn't understand it because his previous wife never cared.

Have I walked out of the hosue not wearing my ring - yes. They were accidents totally. I hate putting on lotion with my rings on, so I take them all off. If i am in a hurry with the kids, i might forget it.

It could be a very innocent mistake - it could be totally on purpose...its so hard to tell which one is true.


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nomistakeaboutit
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Default  Posted: 1:16 PM, September 23rd (Monday)

Does she ever NOT wear her wedding rings at home?


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dameia
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Default  Posted: 1:17 PM, September 23rd (Monday)

I guess it depends on whether or not she usually wears it.

I wore mine very sporadically before DDay, as did WH. I do not wear it anymore, although WH wears his all the time now.

You know her best. Is it common for her to forget? Also what kind of trip is it? Is it outdoorsy, or something where she could conceivably be worried about losing the ring?


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Ostrich80
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Default  Posted: 4:22 PM, September 23rd (Monday)

My ws doesn't wear his because of his job..safety reasons however, when he goes other places, he wears one that is apparently more important that he's had for years. I took mine off on the last DD. Not because I'm looking but because we don't have a M and it means nothing tto me anymore


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SoOver96
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Default  Posted: 7:10 PM, September 23rd (Monday)

I can't take mine off neither can WS because it's tattooed he has my name and date we got married and I've got his name and date

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