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Hope2B
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Member # 40474
Default  Posted: 7:27 PM, September 23rd (Monday)

Good news for me.

The skank prostitute didn't give him anything when they had unprotected sex during their 7 year A, but he didn't know that he was clean or that she was clean, when he and I had "reconnect sex" back in March/April. That behavior put me at risk as he kept to his first "story", which of course I know now, was a lie.

I was very verbal reminding him to think of just how many other penises were stuck inside her, before and during their A, because she was a prostitute! ...and he thought he was so special to her.

I have mentioned here that Happy Hank is a bit simple, & it seems that part of his brain didn't compute consciously that she was a hooker. I spelled it out for him, and our pastor spelled it out for him, but I think it really hit him when he heard it from our pastor, who calmly and coolly took WH through the steps of his behavior, the money that he gave, the sad sob stories she gave--it was always something, and then the sex and the whole ball of wax.

I was hoping the lab would do the "wooden stick with a swab on the end" up his penis to get a sample of whatever to test, but they don't do that anymore as a urine test will suffice. Drat.

Then, I was hoping they'd do that test where they use 20 grit sandpaper on his penis and get a skin scraping sample for another kind of STD test. They don't do that one anymore either. Drat.

Good news, though, no STDs, no Hep C, etc.

Thank goodness for this site, the books people have recommended, the special folks who take the time to connect with me through PM, and thank goodness for MC and IC.



Me: early 60s
Him: 65 yrs old, LTA w/a pro$titute
Married since 1980, no children
DDay: Feb. 25, 2013
Trickle Truth Days: Sept 10, 11, 13, 15 (2013)
His affair--says it was only 8 times 1x/mo, then found out it was 7 YEARS 2-3x/mo

Posts: 353 | Registered: Aug 2013 | From: out west/west coast U.S.A.
OK now
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Member # 14459
Default  Posted: 7:36 PM, September 23rd (Monday)

I'm happy for you that there are no STD's and so sad that wooden sticks and sandpaper aren't used anymore. Medical science sometimes makes 'improvements' that are counterproductive; at least as far as you and I are concerned.

Posts: 1704 | Registered: May 2007 | From: NC
mchercheur
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Member # 37735
Default  Posted: 7:50 PM, September 23rd (Monday)

Yep, a little sandpaper might be fitting & something he would never forget.


together 25 yrs, married 24 yrs, 4 children;Rebuilding
D Day: 5/10/2011 PA
OW: WH's co-worker,divorced, no children, 20 yrs younger than I-----& she knew he was married, had met our kids, but that did not stop her from trying to destroy our family

Posts: 1361 | Registered: Dec 2012
Gr8Lady
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Member # 36307
Default  Posted: 9:35 PM, September 23rd (Monday)

I am truly happy for YOU that the lab results were clear. What chances these old fools take for a piece of ass.
(Sorry that's what she was by your description)

No fool like an old fool!!!!!!!!


BS: Me (63yo)
FWH: HIM (65yo) serial infidelities over past 35 years
OW: Many, most recent 1/2 his age
DD: Multiple unconfirmed until 2012 when I presented evidence, plus LTA with his friends wife lasting 10 years. TT over past year
So done,

Posts: 608 | Registered: Jul 2012
Topic Posts: 4