User Topic: 3 years out- Forgot Dday anti_versary
Member # 32831
Content  Posted: 10:56 AM, September 24th (Tuesday)

So the A has been on my mind a little more lately. I was just doing some painting and my mind started to wonder there. I was doing what I normally do and trying to talk myself out of thinking about it and I wondered why it was on my mind more lately, then I realized it was near the anti-versary of D-day, so I went to look at the date and it's already passed. This is the first year I've forgotten about it, kind of makes me feel like celebrating. Maybe in time I won't even remember the day at all.

BS(me) 29
WS (him) 28
D-day Sept. 20, 2010

Married Feb. 13, 2003

Two beautiful children.

Posts: 72 | Registered: Jul 2011
Member # 37154
Default  Posted: 10:59 AM, September 24th (Tuesday)

Yay!! That's a good place to be.

Dday -9/24/2012

Posts: 1763 | Registered: Oct 2012 | From: northeast
Member # 15902
Default  Posted: 11:00 AM, September 24th (Tuesday)

Congrats on reaching this milestone.

Me: BH, Her: FWW - Long Term EA/PA
d-day: June 25, 2007
Married 30 years, Reconciled

Inner peace begins the moment you choose not to allow another person or event to control your emotions.

Posts: 5695 | Registered: Aug 2007
Member # 37451
Default  Posted: 12:10 PM, September 24th (Tuesday)

That is what I aspire to. You are my hero. Still such a long way to go...

Congratulations, it is wonderful to hear that it is possible to get to where you are.

Thank you, really needed to read this today.

"So often times it happens, that we live our lives in chains and we never even know we have the key"

I would now like to be known as Can!

dday October 21,2012
dday December 20, 2013
wh boots5050
attempted R, it was all a lie


Posts: 1428 | Registered: Nov 2012 | From: Connecticut
Member # 38958
Default  Posted: 1:02 PM, September 24th (Tuesday)

I'm so pleased for you. One day I hope to be where you are.

BW (me)42
WH 44
3 daughters, 1 son
Married 10 years, together 13
DDay 3/14/2013, four year PA
In R
"Sometimes you have to accept the fact that certain things will never go back to the way they used to be."

Posts: 387 | Registered: Apr 2013 | From: Canada
Member # 36781
Default  Posted: 6:41 PM, September 24th (Tuesday)

This is wonderful. Good for you!

me: BS
him: WS

D Day: July 27, 2012
Day of first suspicion: 6/7/11
DD#2: November 2, 2012


Posts: 105 | Registered: Sep 2012
Member # 18814
Default  Posted: 6:45 PM, September 24th (Tuesday)


Love is a choice.

True love is harder to come by than soul mates. True love requires work.

Ignorance can be cured with knowledge. There is no cure for being an idiot.

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