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User Topic: New MC update
rachelc
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Default  Posted: 7:40 PM, September 24th (Tuesday)

Hubby started talking about my "second incident" - which everyone considers a rape but him. MC called him out on it, supported my decision not to file a civil suit and said he's blaming me and he has no right to do that...
Also said the person I need to forgive the most is myself, for staying with hubby snd putting up with all his bullshit.
Man, that made me cry and hubby squirming like crazy....
Don't agree with him on the iforgiveness thing. He said we need to forgive, trust and be vulnerable every day. That's what love is.., I said but I trusted and I got burned. Yep, you get hurt when you love....
Were gonna talk more on this later....


his Ddays: 2/10, 7/11
my Ddays: 1/12, 4/12 broken NC 12/12

me: 48
him: 51
4 kiddos in lower 20's

ôSlide the weight from your shoulders and move forward. You are afraid you might forget, but you never will. You will forgive and remember."


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