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Landoes
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Member # 40222
Default  Posted: 2:21 AM, September 25th (Wednesday)

Well, my WGF had the baby on Friday. She looks exactly like me; yet, I am terrified to do the paternity test because I am just in love with this little girl. I can't imagine finding out she's not mine. I am almost certain my WGF never physically cheated (online EA). Frankly, at this point, I don't care what the results are, but I feel I should do it or it will eat at me.
My WGF wants me to do it, I've told her I don't care about it, but if she wants me to do it, I will.

Posts: 52 | Registered: Aug 2013
Jrazz
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Member # 31349
Default  Posted: 2:25 AM, September 25th (Wednesday)

(((Landoes)))

I can't begin to imagine the fear and pain of not knowing. I have some good guy friends, some of them here, who have been through this. You can lean on us.


For last year's words belong to last year's language
And next year's words await another voice.
And to make an end is to make a beginning. - T.S. Eliot

Posts: 14564 | Registered: Feb 2011 | From: California
AFrayedKnot
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Member # 36622
Default  Posted: 4:43 AM, September 25th (Wednesday)

(((Landoes)))

I know how you feel. I have questioned the paternity of my son since he was born. I suspected cheating which was confirmed Dday two years later.

This is just for me!!!! I had to look at my motivation. Was my motivation in the best interest of the child? Was my motivation in the best interest of myself? My real motivation was that I wanted to prove that my fWS was lying to me. Then what?
Again, just for me. I have found peace in being the best dad in the world to my son whether he is mine or not.


BS 39
fWS 36 (SurprisinglyOkay)
DD DS
A whole bunch of shit that got a lot worse before it got better. Reconciled from the A's but still working hard for a better tomorrow.
"Knowing is half the battle"

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