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User Topic: 2 Years today
DWBH
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Member # 35512
Default  Posted: 9:16 AM, September 25th (Wednesday)

... since DDay #1. The past 6 weeks of "A season" have been challenging, but nothing like last year at this time. Definite progress!

I've had constant triggers & reminders during almost any conversation we've had. Just cheap shots that zing through my mind. I've done my best not to let my expression convey my thoughts, much less my words. It's not necessary or constructive to share these things anymore, and that feels like progress to me.

So, I'm hoping that making it past this date will help in having these triggers diminish. We're leaving tomorrow morning for a long weekend away, just the two of us, to a touristy little fall getaway up north. Looking so forward to getting away for a bit, and de-stressing, and just having time to focus on each other.


Me: BH, 43
Her: FWW, 41 (ThornyRose)
M: 16 years, together 19
2 Daughters: 14 and 12
D Day: 9/25/2011; Lies & TT to 5/4/2012
~Double betrayal; caught them in the act~

Posts: 729 | Registered: May 2012 | From: WI
2married2quit
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Member # 36555
Default  Posted: 9:24 AM, September 25th (Wednesday)

I can't wait to get to the 2yr mark. Glad you're doing better. Triggers will always happen but I guess with time you have to let them go.


BS - Me 43 WS - Her 41
DDAY - June 2012 (found the texts)
DDAY2 - Next Day (found out who) EA
TT- till 9/2012 (some PA)
Married 20yrs. 2kids
Status: in careful R. Sometimes spinning our wheels

Posts: 1245 | Registered: Aug 2012 | From: USA
catlover50
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Member # 37154
Default  Posted: 9:29 AM, September 25th (Wednesday)

Good for you; have a great weekend!



Dday -9/24/2012
Reconciling

Posts: 1710 | Registered: Oct 2012 | From: northeast
LosferWords
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Member # 30369
Default  Posted: 9:34 AM, September 25th (Wednesday)

Awesome update, DWBH!

I do hope you have an outlet for those thoughts in your head, though. Just to let 'em out, so they don't fester. Feel free to PM me at any time if you ever need to vent.

Hope you both have an awesome long weekend together.

Take care.


"I would rather take a punch than not give you a shot. I'd rather find out who you are than who you're not."

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