In my opinion all that is up to you, and how you feel it will help or hurt your stance, and your finding and hanging on to your strong.
For me it they are still not NC then I would stay true to it.
Yes and him removing his belongings is fianacial, because if you have to look at it another day longer you are going to start selling it. Or if you throw it out, then he may have to buy replacements. When you do ask him to get it though be very concise in time frame, and what you expect him to take. Don't wishy wash it.
You have xy and z here. I want it gone by Nov1, if it's still here by that date, I will assume you no longer want it, and get rid of it. You are welcome to come by and get it on, and give him 3 days, and times that he can come.
I don't know your story, so I can't really offer more specifics than that.