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Williesmom
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Default  Posted: 11:42 AM, September 27th (Friday)

Let me preface this by saying that my Wxh was very conflict avoidant and passive aggressive.

The guy that I'm seeing has been unable to see me because of multiple kid/work issues. I totally get that.

Last night, he texted my at bedtime, just to talk. I normally don't like to have deep discussions via text, but I don't like to talk on the phone either.

So, we texted for several hours in a conversation that meandered over several meaningful and difficult topics. It was actually very nice just to be able to have that "conversation" and not worry about upsetting him or having him go dark on me.

I am really enjoying this man and what he is willing to bring to me regarding his thoughts and perceptions.


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Posts: 7772 | Registered: Feb 2009 | From: Western PA
Crescita
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Default  Posted: 1:37 PM, September 27th (Friday)

Sounds wonderful Williesmom


“Happiness cannot be pursued; it must ensue.” ― Viktor E. Frankl, Man's Search for Meaning

Posts: 3459 | Registered: Jun 2011 | From: The Valley of the Sun
nutmegkitty
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Default  Posted: 1:47 PM, September 27th (Friday)

That's some good stuff


me (BS)
him (NPD Ex)
2 dds
DDay 10/7/11
OW
OC

Divorced 1/17/2013

"Diamonds aren't a girl's best friend, freedom is."


Posts: 2601 | Registered: Nov 2011 | From: MA
Ann124
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Default  Posted: 8:09 AM, September 28th (Saturday)

Enjoy!

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tesla
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Default  Posted: 7:20 AM, September 29th (Sunday)


"Thou art the son and heir of a mongrel bitch." --King Lear

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NaiveAgain
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Default  Posted: 7:30 AM, September 29th (Sunday)

It was actually very nice just to be able to have that "conversation" and not worry about upsetting him or having him go dark on me.
It is really refreshing to be able to talk with someone and not feel you are having to skirt around issues or worry that something you say may set them off....


Original WS D-Day July 10, 2008. Kept lying, he is gone.
New WS (2 EA's, no PA) 12-3-13
If you don't like where you are, then change it. You are not a tree.

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