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Tripletrouble
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Default  Posted: 4:42 PM, September 28th (Saturday)

We told our kids today. This was not out of the blue, as we had been doing in house separation, going to marriage counseling, and had been open with them that we were working through a marriage crisis. It was still devastating.
Also, Today Mr. Triple made permanent living arrangements for when the D is final.
We have kept everything as civil as possible. I have taken the high road in all things and we are presenting the best picture of coparenting to our kids as possible.
Now I have to tell my family, and soon word will get around as the kids tell their friends. I am feeling sadness, disappointment, and sometimes rage. I am determined not to be bitter, but it's so damn unfair.


40 somethings - me BW after 20 years
D Day April 2013
Divorced November 2013

Be happy with what you have while you work for what you want - Hellen Keller


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peridot
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Member # 18334
Default  Posted: 5:47 PM, September 28th (Saturday)

(((Tripletrouble)))


I think...therefore, I'm single.

It is what it is.


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jo2love
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Default  Posted: 5:51 PM, September 28th (Saturday)

(((Tripletrouble & children)))

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sleepless34
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Member # 40274
Default  Posted: 5:58 PM, September 28th (Saturday)

I am sorry! That is hard.

Kudos to you though for taking the high road with the kids and for even being able to live in the house with that guy. I could not do it. I still can barely look at him or hear his voice without wanting to throw up. You are handling it with grace and maturity and that makes you a rock star as I am pretty bitter and anger and it is only hurting me....not that F**Ker!


Me BW- 40ish, awesome
Cheating scusband 40ish
2 kids, elementary school age
Bomb dropped Aug 4 out of nowhere...

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risingfromashes
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Default  Posted: 6:32 PM, September 28th (Saturday)

I remember this talk with my children. My heart goes out to you! Always a difficult day.


There is life on the other side of hell.

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