Just Found Out
User Topic: Shattered
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Default  Posted: 10:06 AM, September 30th (Monday)

I just found out my husband of 20 years has cheated on me, again. This is the 3rd affair he's had, the first was a sexual relationship, the second 2 are emotional, sexting, etc. I am devestated, sad, mourning the loss of my marriage. Seeing my husband for who he truly is breaks my heart. Our kids are destroyed. What do I do?

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Default  Posted: 10:15 AM, September 30th (Monday)

I am so sorry for your pain.
I recommend you start reading the Healing Library in the upper left corner. There is a lot of info there that may help you.
None of us want to be here, but there are many people on this forum that can be very helpful and supportive.
I am sorry you are here.
You must take care of yourself, that is imperative!
Post here to vent and know that we all care!

[This message edited by Gajit at 10:16 AM, September 30th (Monday)]

Lord, with Your help I will focus on each small step of the climb, instead of the mountain that stands before me.

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Member # 40617
Default  Posted: 12:27 PM, September 30th (Monday)

I feel your pain, guess that's why I'm here too. BUT you are here and that's an important step. Read through others' posts and The Healing Library. The help and insight you will get here is invaluable. The people here have experience with same or similar situations.
Make sure to take care of yourself, you need to be strong the road ahead is tough, but NOT insurmountable. Good luck to you on this journey

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Default  Posted: 3:20 PM, September 30th (Monday)

The worst thing is our children found out. My dauther went through my cell phone and found out. It's awful. I feel so angry that he could do this to our family.

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Member # 40715
Default  Posted: 9:09 PM, September 30th (Monday)

Iīm so so sorry. My children knew before I did. No one protected them and I couldnīt.

Deep inside where you keep your soul is a solid core of pure will survive this too ((((Shattered))))

There are dark shadows on the earth, but its lights are stronger in the contrast.
Charles Dickens

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