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mrcpu
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Default  Posted: 5:06 PM, September 30th (Monday)

I was watching Weeds at lunch on netflix. Everything was OK until a part where a married woman is having an affair with her husband's friend. (My ww had an affair with my bestfriend).

Watching it didn't bug me much at the time. I didn't really enjoy it but it wasn't killing me.

Then on the way home this afternoon an idiot passing almost killed me in a head on collision. Then a couple of other people almost hit me when I got into town... then my BBQ ran out of fuel and the corn on the cob was rotten. Plus my twenty something son is back in the basement and seems to think it's a f&*(ng vacation.

I'm just really bummed out and I think a big part is what I saw on netflix today.

We are in R but I figured I'd post here.

sigh


D-Day 1: 22 Dec 2012
D-Day 2: 22 July 2014
Me: 40's WW: 40's Together 15 years
1st OM: ex-"Best Friend" of 30+ years
2nd OM: Local Realtek and serial cheater on his pregnant wife.

Posts: 224 | Registered: Jan 2013 | From: Toronto
sisoon
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Member # 31240
Default  Posted: 5:28 PM, September 30th (Monday)

Yeah, man.

Sometimes the triggers kick you immediately. Sometimes they wait a while and sneak up on you. And some days just plain suck.

Glad you made it home safely.


fBH (me) - 70 (22 in my head), fWW (plainsong) - 65+, Married 45+, together since 1965
DDay - 12/2010
Recovered, not yet fully R'ed
I share my own experience because it's the only experience I know, not because I'm a good model.

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