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hexed
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Member # 19258
Default  Posted: 9:00 PM, October 1st (Tuesday)

5 yers and 7 months exactly after DDay, I am divorced.

Signed by the judge yesterday. Received in the mail today. New driver's license and updated bank account info today.

Ride on horse this afternoon where I may have made a new friend.

Glass of wine and bbq ribs with TG tonight

Nothing more to say about that.


But that's just a lot of water
Underneath a bridge I burned
And there's no use in backtracking
Around corners I have turned

“Many of us crucify ourselves between two thieves - regret for the past and fear of the future.” -foulton oursler


Posts: 8439 | Registered: Apr 2008
nowiknow23
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Member # 33226
Default  Posted: 9:04 PM, October 1st (Tuesday)

Holy mother of drawn out crap.

Glad it is finally official, hexed. About time the legal status caught up with your new beginning.


You can call me NIK

"Sometimes it takes a good fall to know where you really stand."
-Hayley Williams


Posts: 25066 | Registered: Aug 2011
hexed
Member
Member # 19258
Default  Posted: 9:07 PM, October 1st (Tuesday)

LOL - NIK

Tell me about it. It was part of the D negotiotiations b/c his health care was so frigging good and private policies aren't. We traded health care for retirement money.

Yep...a looooooong time. I feel relieved its done!


But that's just a lot of water
Underneath a bridge I burned
And there's no use in backtracking
Around corners I have turned

“Many of us crucify ourselves between two thieves - regret for the past and fear of the future.” -foulton oursler


Posts: 8439 | Registered: Apr 2008
jo2love
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Member # 31528
Default  Posted: 9:15 PM, October 1st (Tuesday)

Congrats!!

Posts: 34761 | Registered: Mar 2011
caregiver9000
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Member # 28622
Default  Posted: 9:17 PM, October 1st (Tuesday)

Cheers to relief!

and to "done."


Me: 44, independent, happy, despite co-parenting with a lower muppet
FT "Stretch" (and Skew!) ;)
DS 13 DS 10
S 5/2010
D 12/2012

Posts: 5777 | Registered: May 2010 | From: a better place
better4me
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Member # 30341
Default  Posted: 9:18 PM, October 1st (Tuesday)

Congrats Hexy!!


DDay 11/17/2010 BW:52
Divorced

Posts: 3098 | Registered: Dec 2010 | From: Iowa
wildbananas
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Member # 10552
Default  Posted: 11:05 PM, October 1st (Tuesday)

And I thought mine was bad at 3.5 years.

Congrats, hexie!


Travel light, live light, spread the light, be the light. ~ Yogi Bhajan

Posts: 15383 | Registered: Apr 2006 | From: Now an AZ girl
FaithFool
Member
Member # 20150
Default  Posted: 11:33 PM, October 1st (Tuesday)

My favourite part of this is the horse part.


DDay: June 15, 2008
Mistakenly married Mr. Superfreak
20 years of OWs, WTF?
Divorced Dec 26, 2011
"Life is a shipwreck, but we must not forget
to sing in the lifeboats". -- Voltaire

Posts: 17341 | Registered: Jul 2008 | From: Canada
click4it
Member
Member # 209
Default  Posted: 11:50 PM, October 1st (Tuesday)

Hexed, now you can officially close the door and keep walking.


Me: 41
Two boys: 17 and 13
Divorced 12-13-05
d-day 10-02-01

Laughter will cure life's ills. Have you had your laugh today?


Posts: 25509 | Registered: Jun 2002 | From: California
thebighurt
Member
Member # 34722
Default  Posted: 11:57 PM, October 1st (Tuesday)

Congrats Hexed! It must feel like a lifetime. Glad you're finally free. Enjoy.


Finding what life could have been....... Why didn't I see it?

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