Well, went to court this morning and now my divorce is final. While waiting my turn to see the judge, I just sat there and thought "in true form, here I am taking care of everything and he is off living his life." I then started thinking about everything he had done to me through our marriage and couldn't help think "F'ing a**hole." Left there feeling somewhat happy and got home and really didn't know what to think...just kind of numb to the whole thing. I know it is for the best, but really wish I would have felt that extreme happiness that others had talked about. Time for the next chapter. BW - Me 43
WH - Cheating Swine 43
Dday - February 12, 2013....a week before I was to give birth to the child I miscarried and 12 days before our anniversary.
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jackfish Member Member # 40257
Posted: 11:50 AM, October 3rd (Thursday)
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newlysingle Member Member # 38735
Posted: 11:58 AM, October 3rd (Thursday)
I felt the same as you. My divorce was just finalized a couple of weeks ago. I didn't feel sad, mad or happy. I was just numb. I do know it's what is best for me though. I guess numb is better than devastated, right ?BW - Me (37)
XWH - (37) The Gnat
OW - Some dumb whore he picked up in another state and moved here here. Known as Hello Kitty.
M for 8 years, together for 10
1 DD (5), 1 DS (1 year)
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jo2love Moderator Member # 31528
Posted: 12:57 PM, October 3rd (Thursday)
I hope your new beginning is filled with happiness.