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Default  Posted: 10:08 AM, October 4th (Friday)

I was enjoying watching tv late last night, and as always I have my cell phone next to me, so I can read any emails that come in. Its on silence, as I notice that I am getting an incoming call from a restricted number. This is late, no clients would call that late and my kids would never call from restricted. I of course do not answer. Immediately after that call, same thing another call from restricted number. No voicemail. Now alarms are ringing because when I had contact with STBXH he would try to call (I would not answer) and he would immediately call again to try to get me to pick up.(I have his phone blocked so I do not receive calls/txts from him) Thirty minutes later another call, same thing. And a fourth call. All in about 1.5 hours.

It made me nervous, I was concerned if it was him he might show up. It was amazing how just those calls made me jumpy all over again. I did get my pepper spray out.


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WS: Just a squished bug on the window of my life!
Divorcing, STBXH is engaged/living with OW#3

They have a choice: they can live in my new world, or they can die in their old one." Daenerys Targaryen


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Default  Posted: 10:48 AM, October 4th (Friday)

I am sorry. Why would he be calling or coming over if he is engaged to slutho?

But, I understand the jumpiness. I understand the fear. Is he or was he abusive to you?


BS(ME)40 WH(HIM)38
DD 20 and DS 15
Separated Aug 2012

Moved back home Oct 31 2013
Separated again June 2014. Heading toward divorce.
False R. Still Lying.
Will be divorcing soon!
"You never know how strong you are until being strong


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Default  Posted: 11:11 AM, October 4th (Friday)

He just lost his job 2.5 weeks ago. He is taking me back to court to modify the cs/ss that was just put in place 6 weeks ago. His lawyer was notified yesterday that I am requesting a change in the date of the hearing due to me having major surgery and would be unable to attend for 6 weeks.


Me BS
WS: Just a squished bug on the window of my life!
Divorcing, STBXH is engaged/living with OW#3

They have a choice: they can live in my new world, or they can die in their old one." Daenerys Targaryen


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Default  Posted: 11:14 AM, October 4th (Friday)

oh, well then that would say it was him wanting to yell at you.

Glad you didn't answer your phone.

Stay strong.


BS(ME)40 WH(HIM)38
DD 20 and DS 15
Separated Aug 2012

Moved back home Oct 31 2013
Separated again June 2014. Heading toward divorce.
False R. Still Lying.
Will be divorcing soon!
"You never know how strong you are until being strong


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