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LA44
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Default  Posted: 9:19 PM, October 4th (Friday)

I really hope H doesn't see this....

Today I did something really fun - something I have wanted to do for a while and that is I had some Boudoir pics done!

I was nervous but I found some pics on Pinterest and we (me and photographer) were on the same page. We started off safe, ie: me in a great dress, then I did a "sweater girl" pic. The last shot involved fishnets and a pose that had my back aching.

Hey! Modeling really is hard work and no one was bringing me champagne!

I am looking forward to sharing the pics with him.

Anyone else do this?


Me: 44
He: 47 WH
Married: 15 years
D Day: December 2012
Affair: Fall 2009 - Dec. 2011
R is not linear

Posts: 2311 | Registered: Feb 2013 | From: Canada, eh
Jrazz
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Default  Posted: 10:53 PM, October 4th (Friday)

Fun! I haven't done this, but there's a place nearby that my cousin just went to and she has been raving about it so I might get brave for Christmas or something!


If life is just a series of ridiculous attempts to be alive, you're a hero. - J. Winger

Posts: 17538 | Registered: Feb 2011 | From: California
forced2moveon
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Default  Posted: 12:16 AM, October 5th (Saturday)

I did this a few years ago for my boyfriend. The ones I did were called "White Sheet" photos. It was done in the nude with just a white sheet. The photographer did my hair and makeup and she did the pictures very tastefully. The viewing at her studio was done in a private room with wine and cheese. My boyfriend had not idea what was going on until the turned down the lights and played the video of all my pictures.

Posts: 935 | Registered: Sep 2006 | From: Southern California
catlover50
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Member # 37154
Default  Posted: 4:39 AM, October 5th (Saturday)

I did this and had a lot of fun. My H loved the photos. I had a little book made for him. Also memories for me in the future of how hot I looked at 50!



Dday -9/24/2012
Reconciling

Posts: 1735 | Registered: Oct 2012 | From: northeast
Marathonwaseasy
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Member # 40674
Default  Posted: 5:35 AM, October 5th (Saturday)

I would like to do this
What about photos with FWH? Not so posed as wedding ones but of us as a couple
I can't decide if it would a lie or evidence of reconciliation
I'm too early in the process though


Me BS, 41
Him WS, 45
EA and PA (PA for 11 months)
DDay 13/9/13
3 children - 15,12,3
WS has bipolar, no excuse...

"We're not broken, just bent. We can learn to love again."


Posts: 421 | Registered: Sep 2013 | From: Ireland
LA44
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Member # 38384
Default  Posted: 6:50 AM, October 5th (Saturday)

It was fun! Actually could not imagine doing this Pre-A but I have been working on letting go of hang-ups.

You will know when the time is right marathonwaseasy. And when you are....go for it!


Me: 44
He: 47 WH
Married: 15 years
D Day: December 2012
Affair: Fall 2009 - Dec. 2011
R is not linear

Posts: 2311 | Registered: Feb 2013 | From: Canada, eh
musiclovingmom
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Default  Posted: 8:02 AM, October 5th (Saturday)

I want to do this so badly, but can't find a photographer in my area who does them.

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catlover50
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Member # 37154
Default  Posted: 8:15 AM, October 5th (Saturday)

Marathon; I also did pictures with my H. But not boudoir, just a normal photographer, outside. I did some of just me too. He now has some nice photos of me and of us prominently displayed in his office. The one he had before was older and someone (likely OW) had put it behind some other pictures.



Dday -9/24/2012
Reconciling

Posts: 1735 | Registered: Oct 2012 | From: northeast
lost_in_toronto
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Member # 25395
Default  Posted: 8:23 AM, October 5th (Saturday)

How empowering, LA! Glad you had fun, and hope you shock your WS in all the right ways! I'm sure he's going to love the surprise!


Me: BS/39
Him: WS/37
DDay: August 23, 2009
Together 14 years.
Reconciled.

Posts: 1670 | Registered: Sep 2009 | From: not toronto anymore
tooanalytical
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Member # 22306
Default  Posted: 8:24 AM, October 5th (Saturday)

My first reaction when reading this
(me and photographer)
was whether the photographer was the opposite sex and if so I would be pissed/triggered if my FWW did this.


Me BH 44
FWW 44
Married 21 years
D-Day Apr 29, 2008
Children: 19,17,14
EA/PA - 1 year
Status: R

Posts: 280 | Registered: Jan 2009
LA44
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Member # 38384
Default  Posted: 10:22 AM, October 5th (Saturday)

Well....I am the BS first of all and my initial booking was with a talented male photog and wife. The cost was well above my means.

This photog was a friend. Female friend.

And yes, it was empowering liTO!


Me: 44
He: 47 WH
Married: 15 years
D Day: December 2012
Affair: Fall 2009 - Dec. 2011
R is not linear

Posts: 2311 | Registered: Feb 2013 | From: Canada, eh
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