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WarehouseGuy
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Default  Posted: 10:26 AM, October 5th (Saturday)


My youngest son and his wife made me a grandpa this morning when a healthy baby boy was born This is my first grandchild.

My son and I haven't spoken since my D in '05---but I'm hoping this child changes that. Time will tell.

I suddenly feel older today

whg


If you see your ex with someone else--don't be jealous. Our parents taught us to give our old,used toys to the less fortunate.

Posts: 5368 | Registered: Dec 2004 | From: Michigan
ichoose2live
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Content  Posted: 10:51 AM, October 5th (Saturday)

CONGRATULATIONS Grandpa!
Grandchildren are truly a blessing! Hopefully this little Mr will be the bridge you and your son need to move forward.
Enjoy!


"Love starts with a smile, grows with a kiss, and ends with a tear." unknown

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WarehouseGuy
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Default  Posted: 10:54 AM, October 5th (Saturday)

Thanks Ichoose. I'm hoping for that

whg


If you see your ex with someone else--don't be jealous. Our parents taught us to give our old,used toys to the less fortunate.

Posts: 5368 | Registered: Dec 2004 | From: Michigan
inconnu
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Default  Posted: 10:55 AM, October 5th (Saturday)

Congratulations!!!


Say what you wanna say and let the words fall out...honestly
I wanna see you be brave

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Like you're less than, less than perfect


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Jrazz
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Default  Posted: 11:19 AM, October 5th (Saturday)

That's WONDERFUL!! Congrats all around!!


Cherish those who seek the truth but beware of those who find it. - François-Marie Arouet

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SisterMilkshake
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Default  Posted: 11:27 AM, October 5th (Saturday)

Congratulations, WHG. Grandchildren are wonderful.

Are you at the G2G?


BW (me) 50ish FWH 50ish
Married 34 years, 3 children
d-day 3/10 LTA (4 yrs./fucking & flirting)

"Oh, why do my actions have consequences?" ~ Homer Simpson
"She knew my one weakness: That I'm weak!" ~ Homer Simpson


Posts: 9797 | Registered: Nov 2010 | From: The Great White North USA
WarehouseGuy
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Default  Posted: 11:32 AM, October 5th (Saturday)


Sister--No I'm not there. I tore up my back the other day and my days have been limited to the couch.
I know that I'm missing a great time--but walking around crouched over like a 90 yr. old man still hurts

whg


If you see your ex with someone else--don't be jealous. Our parents taught us to give our old,used toys to the less fortunate.

Posts: 5368 | Registered: Dec 2004 | From: Michigan
sinsof thefather
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Default  Posted: 11:36 AM, October 5th (Saturday)

Congratulations Granddad


...second star to the right and straight on till morning.

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SisterMilkshake
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Default  Posted: 11:47 AM, October 5th (Saturday)

Oh, geez, sorry about your back WHG. That sucks! MrSister's back is easily injured and I know the agony he is in when it is bothering him. Don't wish that on anyone.

However, the G2Ger's probably would have built you a litter to carry you around with them!


BW (me) 50ish FWH 50ish
Married 34 years, 3 children
d-day 3/10 LTA (4 yrs./fucking & flirting)

"Oh, why do my actions have consequences?" ~ Homer Simpson
"She knew my one weakness: That I'm weak!" ~ Homer Simpson


Posts: 9797 | Registered: Nov 2010 | From: The Great White North USA
jo2love
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Default  Posted: 1:06 PM, October 5th (Saturday)

Congratulations!!

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jrc1963
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Default  Posted: 3:52 PM, October 5th (Saturday)

The congrats Grandpa!!!


Me: BSO - 46
Him: FWSO - 69
DS - 13
D-Day - 12-11-09,
R - he finally came home
Your life is an Occasion. Rise to it. - Mr. Magorium, "Mr. Magorium's Wonder Emporium"

Posts: 24595 | Registered: Dec 2009 | From: Florida
wifehad5
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Default  Posted: 3:53 PM, October 5th (Saturday)


FBH - 42
FWW - 43 (BrokenRoad)
2 kids 7&12

The people you do your life with shape the life you live


Posts: 37377 | Registered: Jun 2007 | From: Michigan
persevere
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Default  Posted: 5:05 PM, October 5th (Saturday)

Congrats whg - that's awesome! I hope this opens the door for some reconciliation - new life has a way of doing that. And hope you feel better soon.


Me: BW-44
Him: XWH-44
Together 9 yrs
DDays: 1/10/2011
Status: Divorced 4/27/11

Above all, be the heroine, not the victim. - Nora Ephron

It is our choices...that show what we truly are, far more than our abilities.
- J. K. Rowling


Posts: 4607 | Registered: Mar 2011 | From: Texas
time2grow
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Default  Posted: 6:42 PM, October 5th (Saturday)

Congratulations Grandpa!!!



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jjsr
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Default  Posted: 7:43 PM, October 5th (Saturday)

congrats


Me: BS
Him: WS
Married since 1985
Parents to 2 adult sons and 3 of the cutest cats you have ever seen
D-day 8/6/11 Truth about ONS and 9/21/11 Truth about EA
Trying to reconcile

Posts: 1647 | Registered: Dec 2011 | From: midwest now.
booger bear
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Cool  Posted: 8:49 PM, October 5th (Saturday)

Already the proudness is overwhelming .... Congrats whg so well deserved ... Lucky little boy to have you.


I am fiercely independent and I won’t apologize for it. I'd rather be single than settled.

Posts: 18810 | Registered: Dec 2009 | From: OK - Hot as hell here !!!!!!
WarehouseGuy
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Default  Posted: 4:50 AM, October 6th (Sunday)


Thanks guys

whg


If you see your ex with someone else--don't be jealous. Our parents taught us to give our old,used toys to the less fortunate.

Posts: 5368 | Registered: Dec 2004 | From: Michigan
NaiveAgain
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Default  Posted: 10:52 AM, October 6th (Sunday)

Congratulations!

And many times a child does help bring children closer to their parents. Sending you positive thoughts towards that result....


Original WS D-Day July 10, 2008. Kept lying, he is gone.
New WS (2 EA's, no PA) 12-3-13
If you don't like where you are, then change it. You are not a tree.

Posts: 15288 | Registered: Aug 2008 | From: Ohio
nowiknow23
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Default  Posted: 1:23 PM, October 6th (Sunday)

Awww! Congratulations, Grandpa.


You can call me NIK

"If you carry joy in your heart, you can heal any moment."
- Carlos Santana


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tushnurse
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Default  Posted: 2:52 PM, October 6th (Sunday)

Congrats. I hope this helps you rebuild that relationship.


Me: FBS
Him: FWS
Kids: 15 & 17
Married for 22 years now, was 16 at the time. .
D-Day Sept 26 2008
Fully R'd, and Happy Happy Happy

Posts: 8705 | Registered: Oct 2008 | From: St. Louis
sisoon
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Default  Posted: 6:52 PM, October 6th (Sunday)

Congratulations! I, too, hope your son is willing to rebuild your relationship.


fBH (me) - 70 (22 in my head), fWW (plainsong) - 65+, Married 45+, together since 1965
DDay - 12/2010
Recovered, not yet fully R'ed
I share my own experience because it's the only experience I know, not because I'm a good model.

Posts: 10345 | Registered: Feb 2011 | From: Chicago area
kernel
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Default  Posted: 9:18 PM, October 6th (Sunday)

Congrats, Grandpa. I hope your son will realize how much you love him, now that he knows what being a Dad feels like.

Sorry about your back - it would have been great to meet you at the G2G. Maybe next year.


"On particularly rough days when I'm sure I can't possibly endure, I like to remind myself that my track record for getting through bad days so far is 100% and that's pretty good."

Posts: 5243 | Registered: Jan 2010 | From: Midwest
sinnomore
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Default  Posted: 9:20 PM, October 6th (Sunday)

Congratulations! How awesome!!


Me - WW-40's
Him - BS-40's
Married 20 years, together 24

Posts: 28 | Registered: Sep 2012 | From: USA
authenticnow
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Default  Posted: 9:31 PM, October 6th (Sunday)

Congratulations!


Take up your space (and do it well).

"That's the thing about pain, it demands to be felt."


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