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Williesmom
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Default  Posted: 7:47 AM, October 7th (Monday)

24 years ago today, I got married to my wxh. We've been divorced for almost 5 of them.

I must say that other than just being a date on the calendar, I'm pretty "meh" about it.

I celebrated by going to the Pirates game yesterday with my brother - best game I've ever had the pleasure of seeing in person.

Today, I have a date planned with someone that I've seen off and on for a couple of years. There is no hope of a future relationship with this guy, but he is amusing, kind, and extremely fun.

5 years ago, I was a sobbing puddle on the floor. Now, I am absolutely happier than I ever could have thought possible.



You can stuff your sorries in a sack, mister. -George Costanza
There is a special place in hell for women who don't help other women. - Madeleine Albright

Posts: 7697 | Registered: Feb 2009 | From: Western PA
Bebba1171
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Member # 33857
Default  Posted: 7:54 AM, October 7th (Monday)

Not sure what to say on your anniversary, but I will say that I think you are a great gal with some super good corgis!

I am mad at your Pirates since I am a Cardinals fan!


Divorced by Interlocutory decree in May 2012. WW had an affair with a 66 yo doctor she worked for.
D-Day Sept 16. 2011.
BH- 52 (Me) / XWW 50 - ages back in 2011
Two great kids that don't deserve this!

Posts: 727 | Registered: Nov 2011 | From: USA
Williesmom
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Member # 22870
Default  Posted: 8:12 AM, October 7th (Monday)

Bebba-

It was a wonderful game by both teams.

We in Pittsburgh have endured 20 years of some really bad baseball. It's definitely our turn.


You can stuff your sorries in a sack, mister. -George Costanza
There is a special place in hell for women who don't help other women. - Madeleine Albright

Posts: 7697 | Registered: Feb 2009 | From: Western PA
Pass
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Member # 38122
Default  Posted: 8:18 AM, October 7th (Monday)

Williesmom, that's great! I look forward to the day when these dates mean nothing to me. You're setting a damn fine example for us newbies.


Loyal spouse: Me; Disloyal spouse: The Princess
Two sons: Now 11 and 14
DDay: Nov 15, 2012
Separated: Mar 2, 2013 after 17 year marriage, now divorcing!

The best thing about hitting rock bottom is that everything after that looks fucking fabulous


Posts: 1990 | Registered: Jan 2013
cmego
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Member # 30346
Default  Posted: 8:31 AM, October 7th (Monday)

Yup, my last anniversary passed by with one small tear, and it was the third...so I can't wait until it is no tear at all!

Good for you!


me...BS, 43 years old, 2 small kids
WS, 41, multiple gay affairs
M 15 years, together 17
Divorced

"For whatever we lose, like a you or a me, it's always ourselves we find in the sea" ee cummings


Posts: 4153 | Registered: Dec 2010 | From: South
better4me
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Member # 30341
Default  Posted: 9:56 PM, October 8th (Tuesday)

My wedding anniversary passed with a "meh" too. Hoping DDay antiversary passes that way this year too!


DDay 11/17/2010 BW:52
Divorced

Posts: 3156 | Registered: Dec 2010 | From: Iowa
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