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User Topic: Again, for the umpteen year....
HurtsButImOK
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Default  Posted: 3:15 PM, October 8th (Tuesday)

So its that time of the year again. The time he always deliberately seeks to fuck me over – always the lead up to the R anniversary on 31 Oct, and guaranteed over my b/day mid Nov. True to history it might be now that the settlement is done, yet again because he dragged it out so finalising falls in this time frame.

Seriously again!! You and your bullshit and incessant desire to fuck whores has to fall in this time frame again!! On one hand I will be happy it is finally over, on the other motherfucker again, seriously again!!!!

I really should be just thankful that this is the last year after now 17 years that he can affect me like this. But it still fucking hurts that he is a dick and I chose him. Fuck!!


Me: Awesome - 35

"I’ve learned that people will forget what you said, people will forget what you did, but people will never forget how you made them feel". –Maya Angelou

"When I let go of what I am, I become what I might be". –


Posts: 722 | Registered: Apr 2013 | From: Australia
SBB
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Default  Posted: 4:10 PM, October 8th (Tuesday)

finalising falls in this time frame

Keep your eye on the prize. It is good that something positive is happening during this time-frame. Over time I hope to add so many new memories on anti-dates that they drown out the anti memories.


Buzz- The word you are searching for is 'Space-Ranger.'
Woody- The word I'm searching for, I can't say, because there are Pre-school toys here.

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gonnabe2016
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Default  Posted: 6:59 PM, October 8th (Tuesday)

At least he keeps all the shit confined to the same time period. Imagine if he spread it out so that you had to deal with some type of *memory* year-round.....


Just Breathe. I'm sorry that he's such a dick.


"Oh, what a tangled web we weave when first we practice to deceive." - Sir Walter Scott

In my effort to be *concise*, I often come off as blunt and harsh. Sorry, don't mean to be offensive.


Posts: 7695 | Registered: Feb 2012 | From: Midwest
vivere
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Default  Posted: 7:10 PM, October 8th (Tuesday)

17 years is a long time to put up with a dick!

This time next year you will reclaim this period the way you choose to, give it the meaning you want it to have.


You are responsible for your own happiness :)

Posts: 314 | Registered: Jan 2012
HurtsButImOK
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Default  Posted: 2:05 PM, October 9th (Wednesday)

Thanks for the support.

It was fuckery year round, just extra special fuckery during this time period each year.


Just gotta keep my eye on the prize, get the legalities done and continue onward and upward.

Thanks again


Me: Awesome - 35

"I’ve learned that people will forget what you said, people will forget what you did, but people will never forget how you made them feel". –Maya Angelou

"When I let go of what I am, I become what I might be". –


Posts: 722 | Registered: Apr 2013 | From: Australia
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