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HFSSC
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Default  Posted: 8:12 PM, October 9th (Wednesday)

I am treading water and desperately hoping for my happy to come back. I feel little flashes that make me hopeful. I just wanted to share this because it made me smile.

I love Harry Potter. Well, maybe not so much HP but all of the books. I have read the entire series more times than I can remember. Some sections are memorized almost word for word.

So, I am FB friends with a couple of girls who are around my ds14's age... HS freshmen. One of them posted the other day, "I'll be upstairs in my room, making no noise, and pretending I don't exist." A couple of people posted very concerned replies, but I remembered her posting something about Harry Potter a while back. So I took a chance and posted, "Too right, you will!! <spoken like Uncle Vernon>"

She replied "OMG Ms HFSSC, you made my day! This was perfect! :)"

Small thing but it made my day too.

[This message edited by HFSSC at 8:13 PM, October 9th (Wednesday)]


Me, 47
Him, 40 (JMSSC)
married 17 years. In R. We are making it. The past does not define who we are today.

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Default  Posted: 8:20 PM, October 9th (Wednesday)

Sometimes that's all it takes


ka-mai
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nowiknow23
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Default  Posted: 8:21 PM, October 9th (Wednesday)

And hugs to you, HFSSC. I hope your happy finds you soon.


You can call me NIK

There's always failure. And there's always disappointment. And there's always loss.
But the secret is learning from the loss, and realizing that none of those holes are vacuums.
- Michael J. Fox


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jo2love
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Default  Posted: 8:30 PM, October 9th (Wednesday)




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Kajem
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Default  Posted: 3:04 AM, October 10th (Thursday)


I trust you is a better compliment than I love you, because you may not trust the person you love, but you can always love the person you trust. - Unknown
Relationships are like sharing a book, it doesn't work if you're not on the same page.

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tushnurse
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Default  Posted: 8:29 AM, October 10th (Thursday)

I love being friends with some of my kids friends. I think it helps them to know there is an adult other than mom and dad that gets them too.


Me: FBS
Him: FWS
Kids: 14 & 16
Married for 21 years now, was 16 at the time. .
D-Day Sept 26 2008
Fully R'd, and Happy Happy Happy

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