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User Topic: I need to read the 180 guide lines
sad81712
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Member # 37418
Default  Posted: 2:48 PM, October 10th (Thursday)

I can't believe 14 months after dday and feeling really good about our recovery I find out my H has not told me everything....He's been lying for over a year....I'm heartbroken. He gets home tonight and I need to be ready. I can't find where the 180 guide is. I've looked through the Healing Library. Please help me find it.....


Dday 8/12
thing are better but not the same....
Dday #2 10/13 b/c of TT
8/14- We're in R

Posts: 35 | Registered: Nov 2012
Morhurt
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Member # 40166
Default  Posted: 2:53 PM, October 10th (Thursday)

Here is the link:
http://www.survivinginfidelity.com/faq_bs.asp#FAQ11


Me: BS
Him: FWS
M: 15 years
4 lovely daughters
Working to rebuild.

Posts: 900 | Registered: Aug 2013 | From: Canada
Morhurt
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Member # 40166
Default  Posted: 2:55 PM, October 10th (Thursday)

I wanted to get that to you quickly but now I'll respond...

Oh man sad81712, I am so sorry!!! I can't even imagine, that is my absolute biggest fear. I really hope that this is something you two can work through.

Big ((hugs)) on this awful day. Don't forget to breathe.


Me: BS
Him: FWS
M: 15 years
4 lovely daughters
Working to rebuild.

Posts: 900 | Registered: Aug 2013 | From: Canada
heartache101
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Member # 26465
Default  Posted: 3:03 PM, October 10th (Thursday)

Sad
Has he now came clean or is this a new discovery you found?


There are degrees to which you let people back into your life and degrees to which you let them back into your heart-which, of course, are not the same thing

Posts: 3186 | Registered: Dec 2009 | From: Indiana
sad81712
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Member # 37418
Default  Posted: 3:13 PM, October 10th (Thursday)

Thank so much for the fast reply. I've read it and now hope I can do it. I'm devastated.

He did not come clean...I found out. I felt I needed to snoop. He's been out of town for a few days so I went to his office and poked around on his computer....and I found more. I found he had been talking and did "God knows what" on Skype. It was from 2011. I believe he hasn't cheated during this past year. But, he still hasn't come clean of what he did in the past....even after many times I was on my knees begging him to tell me everything.... I'm sick to my stomach


Dday 8/12
thing are better but not the same....
Dday #2 10/13 b/c of TT
8/14- We're in R

Posts: 35 | Registered: Nov 2012
Topic Posts: 5