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User Topic: Popped up in my work email - yuck
need_hope
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Member # 23989
Shutup  Posted: 2:54 PM, October 10th (Thursday)

Thanks LinkedIn but I think I'll decline the suggestion. While I do actually know my ex, the fact that I know him is exactly why he is my ex and I'd rather not "add him to my network".

Next thing you know I'll be getting suggestions to add every anonymous hook-up, one-night stand, long-term skank or two-bit, low-rent festering cooze he ever shagged. Nope, don't think so. Those are exactly the "connections" I chose to get rid of.

Now I feel the need to shower with a brillo pad.


Me - happily single
Him - no longer matters
Married 28 yrs
Filed for D 1/10
DIVORCED 12/12

Tact is for people who aren't witty enough to be sarcastic.


Posts: 1729 | Registered: May 2009 | From: East Coast
nowiknow23
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Member # 33226
Default  Posted: 2:55 PM, October 10th (Thursday)


You can call me NIK

Wise men talk because they have something to say; fools, because they have to say something.
- Plato


Posts: 24393 | Registered: Aug 2011
need_hope
Member
Member # 23989
Default  Posted: 3:02 PM, October 10th (Thursday)

It was not what I was expecting NIK. To scroll down a work-related email and see his stupid face looking at me and LinkedIn suggesting we should be connected. Blech.

I shuddered at the thought and then deleted the email.


Me - happily single
Him - no longer matters
Married 28 yrs
Filed for D 1/10
DIVORCED 12/12

Tact is for people who aren't witty enough to be sarcastic.


Posts: 1729 | Registered: May 2009 | From: East Coast
DecimatedHeart
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Member # 37657
Default  Posted: 3:57 PM, October 10th (Thursday)

I completely understand! LinkedIn actually has asked me more than once if I want to add OW to my network. I quit using LinkedIn, not that I used it that much to begin with. I don't need to see her name and horse-face every time I log on.

[This message edited by DecimatedHeart at 3:58 PM, October 10th (Thursday)]


Me, BS 41
Him WH 42 - LTA, EA/PA
Together 24 years
DD13 - the love of my life
DDay#1 11/10/2012
DDay#4 4/5/2013 (NC broken AGAIN)
A supposedly over 6/14/2013

All my posts are edited - I hate typos. :)


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