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Completelybroken
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Default  Posted: 3:47 PM, October 11th (Friday)

So since the woman my H fucked 4 years ago still lives in the same town there is a remote possibility We will run into her. Wehave decided that if we see her we will just ignore her or if she initiates a conversation (she has no idea I know) my husband will politely say we are doing wonderful but my amazing and beautiful wife and I have somewhere important to be see you around while putting his arm around me and giving me a kiss and as we turn to leave give me a quick pat on the butt that she is sure to see. All the while I will just politely smile. I will do this bc I am better than her.
Now let's be real so that I can possibly hold a straight faced if this happens. As I'm smiling I will be smiling bc this is what I am imagining telling her:
Hey cum dumpster! I see you have a beautiful new baby boy. I'm so happy to see you had a healthy pregnancy and delivery and are enjoying your new child.
I'm so glad you didn't have to experience the excruciating pain of puking your guts up 4-6 times a day for 9 months and praying everyday for 9 months that you can hang on because you don't want to loose this baby like you did your angel baby last year. In addition to all this I'm just thrilled to understand you didn't have the issue of some slut like yourself, who has absolutely no concept of right or wrong think it is ok to fuck your husband.
Oh I'm sorry that's right your moral code is so loose and you think so little of yourself you aren't even married to the guy that knocked you up! So I will rephrase that... In addition to all this I'm just thrilled to understand you didn't have the issue of some slut like yourself, who has absolutely no concept of right or wrong think it is ok to fuck your baby daddy.
Now that I am speaking slut do you understand the statement?
I truly hope you have a nice life and that your little boys never:
Find out what a slutty cum dumpster home wrecker their mommy is or:

That they take after their mommy and become home wreckers themselves or:

worse possible scenario MARRY a women JUST like their slutty mommy.

I will not and would not EVER say this. Why? because I am not only better than her. I am a freaking AMAZING person who doesn't go around trying to ruin other peoples lives.
So instead I will just


Me-BS 31
Him-FWH 37
Dday-7-6-13
EA-1yr
PA sex 3-4times over three months during the EA

Posts: 88 | Registered: Jul 2013
shatteredheart7
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Member # 39734
Default  Posted: 5:09 PM, October 11th (Friday)

Yes you are! Good for you for having a plan. I have tried to just smile and ignore her, but every time I see her I get this red hot rage in my eyes and it's all I can do to keep myself from ripping her hair out and punching her in the mouth. I haven't see her since I "killed her off" so I don't know how I will react next time. By kill her off I mean, I taped a pic of her to a cardboard box, took it to the woods and shot it, stabbed it and punched it while I screamed at her. It felt damn good too!

God, I hate cumdumpsters!


Me~40
FWH~46
Married 8yrs
Together 11 1/2
Me~ 3 kids, 21,17,14
Him~no kids
A with a mutual "friend" for 2+yrs
He confessed 9/9/12
A was over 2/12
7/13~ Happier than we have been in yrs!

Posts: 240 | Registered: Jul 2013
Completelybroken
Member
Member # 40051
Default  Posted: 10:44 AM, October 14th (Monday)

Heart- I can only imagine how good "killing her off felt" and I thought just telling her off in my mind was therapeutic!


Me-BS 31
Him-FWH 37
Dday-7-6-13
EA-1yr
PA sex 3-4times over three months during the EA

Posts: 88 | Registered: Jul 2013
Topic Posts: 3