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blakesteele
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Member # 38044
Default  Posted: 6:01 AM, October 14th (Monday)

I saw your post yesterday talking about your birthday desires and that your birthday is today.

I pray you have a peaceful, restful day today.

God be with you.

[This message edited by blakesteele at 6:03 AM, October 14th (Monday)]


ME: 42 BH, I don't PM female members
SHE: 38 EA
Married: 15 years
Together: 17 years
D/Day 9-10-12
NC: 10-25-12
NC: Broken early November 2012, OM not respond
2 girls; 7 and 10
Fear is payments on debts you have not

Posts: 3613 | Registered: Jan 2013 | From: Central Missouri
jost1125
Member
Member # 38710
Default  Posted: 6:08 AM, October 14th (Monday)

Just want to chime in and say happy birthday too! I read your post yesterday too but didn't have time to reply. My b-day is coming up too and all I want is something similar to what you would like.

I hope you get what you need today.
Happy Birthday!
((cantaccept))


Me (BGF) 35yr
Him (WBF) 32yr
Children: 14yr (mine)
Dday #1 (admitted to EA) Sept. 29, 2012
Dday #2 (admitted is was PA) Oct. 1, 2012

Posts: 120 | Registered: Mar 2013 | From: Midwest
AML04
Member
Member # 39682
Default  Posted: 6:27 AM, October 14th (Monday)

Happy Birthday!! I hope this year and all of the following bring you all you need and deserve.


Me-BS Him-WH DS 5/12
T-13 M-9
DDay 5/26/13, TT through 8/13
2.5 yr EA w/co-worker, PA 12/12 to 4/13.
Hopeful for R

Posts: 844 | Registered: Jun 2013 | From: MA
ItsaClimb
Member
Member # 37107
Default  Posted: 8:36 AM, October 14th (Monday)

Happy Birthday, hope you have a peaceful day {hugs}


BS 46
Together 29 yrs, M 25 years
2 daughters 24yo(married with a brand new little daughter) & 19yo
D-Day 18 Aug 2012
6mth EA lead to 4mth PA with CO-W. I found out 8 1/2 yrs later

Posts: 948 | Registered: Oct 2012
bionicgal
Member
Member # 39803
Default  Posted: 9:06 AM, October 14th (Monday)

Happy birthday greetings to you! Life throws us curve balls sometimes, but better to be here and enjoy the wild ride!

I hope you have some happy moments today!


me - BS (40s)
DDay - June 2013, A was 2+ months, EA then PA
In MC & Reconciling
An affair is more like a mental break than a relationship.

I edit, therefore I am.


Posts: 1888 | Registered: Jul 2013 | From: USA
confused615
Member
Member # 30826
Default  Posted: 9:14 AM, October 14th (Monday)

Happy Birthday!


BS(me)42
FWH 45
4 kids..21,20,11,10
M: June 2001
D-Day: 8/10/10
Status: Happily Reconciled.

..that feeling you get in your stomach, when you heart's broken. It's like all the butterflies just died.


Posts: 7321 | Registered: Jan 2011 | From: Indiana
Gr8Lady
Member
Member # 36307
Default  Posted: 9:57 AM, October 14th (Monday)

Awww Happy Birthday...hope everything is great today for you.

Your SI buddies have your back always...


BS: Me (63yo)
FWH: HIM (65yo) serial infidelities over past 35 years
OW: Many, most recent 1/2 his age
DD: Multiple unconfirmed until 2012 when I presented evidence, plus LTA with his friends wife lasting 10 years. TT over past year
So done,

Posts: 609 | Registered: Jul 2012
SpiderGrl
Member
Member # 40157
Default  Posted: 10:08 AM, October 14th (Monday)

Happy Birthday!!!!


Me 36- BW
Him 37- WH 6 month EA pushing PA.
DDAY- 7/2/13
Strength does not come from physical capacity. It comes from an indomitable will. -Gandhi
Pls forgive weird sentences and spelling mistakes, I post from my phone and autocorrect hates me.

Posts: 101 | Registered: Aug 2013 | From: US
StillStanding1
Member
Member # 40144
Default  Posted: 2:41 PM, October 14th (Monday)

Happy Birthday. Cantaccept!!!!

Sending you hugs and prayers for strength. I hope the year to come will bring happier moments and peace to you!!!!


Me: 40s BS, Him: 40s WH
M 21 yrs - 3 teens
LTA = 2+ yrs, Dday = 2/10/13, he moved out, he officially moved back in 1/25/14 and our work continues...

Posts: 657 | Registered: Aug 2013 | From: MidWest
heartache101
Member
Member # 26465
Default  Posted: 2:45 PM, October 14th (Monday)

Happy Birthday! Hope you made the day about you!


There are degrees to which you let people back into your life and degrees to which you let them back into your heart-which, of course, are not the same thing

Posts: 3187 | Registered: Dec 2009 | From: Indiana
PrincessPeach06
Member
Member # 39588
Default  Posted: 3:22 PM, October 14th (Monday)

Happy Birthday! :)


Me (BS): 35
Him (fWS): 36
Married 16 years 6 kids ages 15-6
DDay #1 (EA) July '08
DDay #2 (EA/ONS- different OW) May 15, 2013

Finally this is R 8/14/13

"Forgiving is a journey; the deeper the wound, the longer the journey".


Posts: 299 | Registered: Jun 2013
SoVerySadNow
Member
Member # 36711
Default  Posted: 4:45 PM, October 14th (Monday)

Happy Birthday to you, Cantaccept!


Me:BW
Him:WH
D-day(s),after years of TT and Gaslighting was Labor Day Weekend 2012, continuing for a week after. *Dammit! More TT 3/9/13
Really trending toward D- planning about it is my "happy place" now.

Posts: 1292 | Registered: Sep 2012 | From: Sunny Florida
sinnomore
New Member
Member # 36800
Default  Posted: 8:57 PM, October 14th (Monday)

Happy birthday! Hope you enjoyed celebrating YOU!!

Edited for spelling....

[This message edited by sinnomore at 8:59 PM, October 14th (Monday)]


Me - WW-40's
Him - BS-40's
Married 20 years, together 24

Posts: 28 | Registered: Sep 2012 | From: USA
cantaccept
Member
Member # 37451
Default  Posted: 5:20 AM, October 15th (Tuesday)

Thank you everyone!

It was a really great birthday. It was actually the first one I ever had that was all about me!

That was fun. It feels a little selfish, but I think I can live with that!

H gave me presents and a card (most special to me, the words, the thoughts), first thing in the morning.

Then we took the train into NYC, walk around a lot, ate where I wanted to, laughed, talked, created new memories.

It was especially nice because the two days before were filled with lots and I mean lots of honest communication.

It wouldn't have felt anywhere near as special without that.

Here's to new beginnings.

Peace everyone!


Life is change. Growth is optional. Choose wisely.

I would now like to be known as Can!

dday October 21,2012
dday December 20, 2013
wh boots5050
attempted R, it was all a lie

Divorced 8/5/14


Posts: 1321 | Registered: Nov 2012 | From: Connecticut
blakesteele
Member
Member # 38044
Default  Posted: 5:21 AM, October 15th (Tuesday)


ME: 42 BH, I don't PM female members
SHE: 38 EA
Married: 15 years
Together: 17 years
D/Day 9-10-12
NC: 10-25-12
NC: Broken early November 2012, OM not respond
2 girls; 7 and 10
Fear is payments on debts you have not

Posts: 3613 | Registered: Jan 2013 | From: Central Missouri
authenticnow
Moderator
Member # 16024
Default  Posted: 5:36 AM, October 15th (Tuesday)


Take up your space (and do it well).

"That's the thing about pain, it demands to be felt."


Posts: 37386 | Registered: Sep 2007
AFrayedKnot
Member
Member # 36622
Default  Posted: 5:50 AM, October 15th (Tuesday)

Awesome!!!


BS 39
fWS 36 (SurprisinglyOkay)
DD DS
A whole bunch of shit that got a lot worse before it got better.
"Knowing is half the battle"

Posts: 2560 | Registered: Aug 2012
StillStanding1
Member
Member # 40144
Default  Posted: 8:28 AM, October 15th (Tuesday)

Wow! Great news! So happy for you!!!!!!


Me: 40s BS, Him: 40s WH
M 21 yrs - 3 teens
LTA = 2+ yrs, Dday = 2/10/13, he moved out, he officially moved back in 1/25/14 and our work continues...

Posts: 657 | Registered: Aug 2013 | From: MidWest
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