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ArkLaMiss
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Default  Posted: 2:21 PM, October 14th (Monday)

They were gross and nasty. One claims he had a pet name for her. She's so gross and nasty and morbidly obese. He says he can't remember what he called her. I say he's lying. He also told her all kinds of stuff including I love you. She's not the only one, there's one in Tx, too. Told her shit, too. Including that he was going to leave me. All were, supposedly, cyber affairs, including cyber sex and lots of phone calls. Don't know if he ever met anyone and probably never will. He's oilfield, so works off a lot. Never took a poly, never wrote a timeline. Doesn't read books like he said he would. Won't post here. Thinks he's not like others here. I'm disgusted by all this. It's been 9 years this month since I found out. Won't admit anything but what I found out.


Just HOW stupid do you think I am, exactly?

Posts: 1203 | Registered: Jun 2007
sullymeishadomi
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Default  Posted: 3:43 PM, October 14th (Monday)

((ArkLaMis)). I think its the ol 'if I dont talk about it, it'll go away'. If he lied to you, he def lied to them. Im not great with advice. Just wanted to leave a hug.


People tell you exactly who they are...why expect them to be what they are not ....will be divorcing the selfish creep.

Posts: 8394 | Registered: Sep 2007
SerJR
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Member # 14993
Default  Posted: 7:32 PM, October 14th (Monday)

(((Arklamiss)))

Is this a dealbreaker for you?


Me: BH - Happily remarried.
Hope is never lost. It exists within you - it is real. It is not a force in and of itself - it is something that you create with every thought, action, and choice you make. It is a gift that you create for yourself.

Posts: 17109 | Registered: Jun 2007 | From: Further North than South
ArkLaMiss
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Member # 14918
Default  Posted: 7:35 PM, October 14th (Monday)

Thanks for replying, Sully. I guess you are right.


Just HOW stupid do you think I am, exactly?

Posts: 1203 | Registered: Jun 2007
Ostrich80
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Member # 34827
Default  Posted: 7:57 PM, October 14th (Monday)

ArkLaMis)). I think its the ol 'if I dont talk about it, it'll go away'. If he lied to you, he def lied to them. Im not great with advice. Just wanted to leave a hug.

I agree ^^^^. I'm living with one of these too.


BS..me
WS..him
Been with him over half my life
4kid
DD1 10-01-09 DD2 02-12-12 discovered it never ended
OW..nothing special. Just your average skank
Status..#$%@????

Posts: 5141 | Registered: Feb 2012 | From: midwest
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