Topic: DD's touching gesture...
Member # 38928
| Posted: 10:12 PM, October 14th (Monday)|
Out of the blue and totally unexpected, DD22 told me she was going with me for emotional and physical support this Saturday to the final hearing. She told me that even if I tell her no, which she was expecting me to do, she would show up anyway so there was no point in me arguing with her about it. She works at the courthouse and it is her second home so she is very comfortable there.
Never expected this, and it is so sweet on her part! It might make the event a little more tolerable knowing I have support there with me.
To my knowledge, POS still has no plans to be there since he waived his right to appear, and he can't afford the plane ticket anyway. However, my guard will be up and ready, just in case.
This is going to be a LONG week waiting...
BS - Me
XPOS - too many OW/OCs, started 1994? - never stopped
Kids - 22, 20, 17
M Dissolved 2013!!!
This above all: to thine own self be true, and it must follow, as the night the day, thou canst not then be false to any man, ~ Shakespeare
Posts: 829 | Registered: Apr 2013 | From: Rising out of Hell's ashes!
Member # 32554
| Posted: 10:29 PM, October 14th (Monday)|
I love her!
Me = BS (Stay-at-home-mom)
Him = EX-d out (abusive troglodyte NPD SA)
3 elementary school-aged kids
Together 20 years
D-Day: Memorial Weekend 2011
2013 - I DIVORCED HIM, I'M FREE!
Posts: 8792 | Registered: Jun 2011 | From: USA
Member # 26928
| Posted: 10:45 PM, October 14th (Monday)|
Your DD is an awesome young lady.
Me - 41
My Rockstar (Hubs #2) - 46, faithful, & an absolute doll!
DD(20) and DS(18, PDD-NOS)
6 Furkids (4 Dogs and 2 Cats)
WXH (serial cheater, 12+ OW. Undiagnosed SA?)
Note: I edit often for typos/clarity.
Posts: 5534 | Registered: Dec 2009 | From: United States
Member # 40144
| Posted: 11:08 AM, October 15th (Tuesday)|
Thank God for truly awesome kids! She sounds wonderful. So glad you have her support. You deserve it.
Me: 40s BS, Him: 40s WH
M 20 yrs - 3 teens
LTA = 2+ yrs, Dday = 2/10/13, he moved out, MC/IC/FC,
He officially moved back in 1/25/14 and our work continues...
Posts: 527 | Registered: Aug 2013 | From: MidWest
Member # 30221
| Posted: 11:23 AM, October 15th (Tuesday)|
My 21 year old son was in the gallery at a recent divorce court hearing. I asked him not to go. But he had seen the notice and said that nothing his mother or I could do would keep him away.
My ex-wife and her attorney tried to have him ejected and were denied as he was sitting there.
He watched all of it
"I never saw a wild thing sorry for itself. A bird will fall frozen dead from a bough without ever having felt sorry for itself." D. H. Lawrence
Her: WW/56 Me: BS/62, 24yrs M
3 great kids, now 22, 20, 17 b,b,g
D-Day 8/14/08, D 1/13/11
Posts: 1108 | Registered: Nov 2010 | From: East Coast
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