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Vulcanized
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Member # 33523
Default  Posted: 12:37 AM, October 15th (Tuesday)

Ran my credit report today. Couldn't get a copy b/c I couldn't answer questions about a car loan. That I didn't take out.

As a j/i/c, run XH's credit. Apparently the fucking fuck took out a loan in my name last year. Before the D was final. I was spitting tacks.

Wanted to go by my old house (the one I bought XH) and bust the window on his brand new car. Instead, didn't.

Talked to one of my friends, who works at a law office. If possible, going to nail this motherfucker to the floor.


Me: MH 40s; Him: MH 40s (I had RA)
OW: 30s, moron; one of many
M: 8 yrs
3/13: D'd
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Everything is as it should be.

Posts: 762 | Registered: Oct 2011 | From: Vulcania
Phoenix1
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Member # 38928
Default  Posted: 1:19 AM, October 15th (Tuesday)

Nail that motherfucker to the floor, walls, and ceiling!!


BS - Me
XPOS - too many OW/OCs over 20+yrs
Kids - DDs 23,18 -DS20 Deceased
M Dissolved 2013

This above all: to thine own self be true, and it must follow, as the night the day, thou canst not then be false to any man ~ Shakespeare, Hamlet


Posts: 1173 | Registered: Apr 2013 | From: Rising out of Hell's ashes!
SBB
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Member # 35229
Default  Posted: 6:12 AM, October 15th (Tuesday)

AYFKM????

Nail that motherfucker to the floor, walls, and ceiling!!

^^THIS!!


I may have reached a point where I'd piss on him if he was on fire.... eventually!!

Posts: 5608 | Registered: Apr 2012 | From: Australia
openedupmyeyes
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Member # 27871
Angry  Posted: 6:59 AM, October 15th (Tuesday)

^^^^this. Then turn on a ceiling fan. Rip him a few new a#$ holes.


Me:53 BS
Him:53 FWH Trying to make me a believer?
Years married:35
:03-01-10: The day I learned the truth
Kids:Daughters 4 all grown and married.
Reconciliation is hard.
Really freakin' hard.

Posts: 765 | Registered: Mar 2010 | From: The Great State of Texas
Gemini71
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Member # 40115
Default  Posted: 8:00 AM, October 15th (Tuesday)

I believe that's called credit fraud and is a felony. FTG.


Edited to correct stupid typos.

Two steps forward and one step backwards, is still progress.


Posts: 1854 | Registered: Jul 2013 | From: Illinois, USA
nutmegkitty
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Member # 33882
Default  Posted: 8:05 AM, October 15th (Tuesday)

OMG!!!! What an ASS!!!!

FTG, go after his criminal ass.


me (BS)
him (NPD Ex)
2 dds
DDay 10/7/11
OW
OC

Divorced 1/17/2013

"Diamonds aren't a girl's best friend, freedom is."


Posts: 2601 | Registered: Nov 2011 | From: MA
TrustGone
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Member # 36654
Default  Posted: 8:39 AM, October 15th (Tuesday)

Go after the fucker. What a POS!!!!!!FTG


BW-50
WH#2-51
M-9 yrs T-11 yrs
4 children-none together
DD#1-9/5/11 LTA 2yrs
DD#2-7/3/12 False R
DD#3-4/29/13 (OW broke NC)
Status: Your guess is as good as mine.

Posts: 2420 | Registered: Aug 2012 | From: Texas
Dark Inertia
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Member # 30727
Default  Posted: 9:27 AM, October 15th (Tuesday)

Wow! Is the loan paid off or still open?


"If I listened earlier, I wouldn't be here. But that's just the trouble with me. I give myself very good advice, but I very seldom follow it."

Posts: 1278 | Registered: Jan 2011 | From: The Ohio
Vulcanized
Member
Member # 33523
Default  Posted: 10:35 AM, October 15th (Tuesday)

Loan is very much active. XH is paying fully and promptly. It's the part where I'm responsible for something I had no clue about that has me livid.

I'm trying to get it sorted, from there , see if I can go after him for identity fraud.

I'd really like to skin him alive; since I can't, if I can get him on a felony, I will. Fuck him, fuck him, fuck him.


Me: MH 40s; Him: MH 40s (I had RA)
OW: 30s, moron; one of many
M: 8 yrs
3/13: D'd
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Everything is as it should be.

Posts: 762 | Registered: Oct 2011 | From: Vulcania
dmari
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Member # 37215
Default  Posted: 10:46 AM, October 15th (Tuesday)

Do what you need to do to protect your credit and identity. Let his actions meet his consequences. Good luck!


Me (BS): 43 Children: DD 19, DS 15
Divorced September 30, 2014
"It's always darkest before the dawn ..."

Posts: 2264 | Registered: Oct 2012
StillStanding1
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Member # 40144
Default  Posted: 10:59 AM, October 15th (Tuesday)

OMG. There is just no action low enough for these scuzzy pond scum. It is just outrageous. FTG.

(((vulcanized)))


Me: 40s BS, Him: 40s WH
M 21 yrs - 3 teens
LTA = 2+ yrs, Dday = 2/10/13, he moved out, he officially moved back in 1/25/14 and our work continues...

Posts: 710 | Registered: Aug 2013 | From: MidWest
sparkysable
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Member # 3703
Default  Posted: 11:38 AM, October 15th (Tuesday)

Nail that motherfucker to the floor, walls, and ceiling!!


D-day OW#1 2/2004; R for 6 years; D-day OW#2 5/2010

Marriages that start this way, stepping over the bodies of loved ones as the giddy couple walks down the aisle, are not likely to last.


Posts: 3385 | Registered: Mar 2004 | From: NY
2long
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Member # 10570
Default  Posted: 3:28 PM, October 15th (Tuesday)

Do you need a new car?

Go pick it up and take over the payments, if so. It's your car, since your name is on it.

If you don't need the car, sell it out from under his sorry ass.

-ol' 2long


Posts: 20 | Registered: May 2006 | From: So. Cal
Tripletrouble
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Default  Posted: 3:59 PM, October 15th (Tuesday)

There should definitely be legal consequences.. Very possibly felony offense(s). Go after this with a vengeance. I am wondering what liability the lender may have as well.


40 somethings - me BW after 20 years
D Day April 2013
Divorced November 2013

Be happy with what you have while you work for what you want - Hellen Keller


Posts: 638 | Registered: May 2013
donotlietome
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Member # 26478
Default  Posted: 5:00 PM, October 15th (Tuesday)

Think I'd have my car towed home!!!

Posts: 193 | Registered: Dec 2009
tesla
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Default  Posted: 8:44 PM, October 15th (Tuesday)

Wow.

FTG.

And bring your new car home.


"Thou art the son and heir of a mongrel bitch." --King Lear

Posts: 4683 | Registered: Jan 2012 | From: Indiana
Vulcanized
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Member # 33523
Default  Posted: 1:19 AM, October 16th (Wednesday)

The thing that's ironic is I don't know how to drive.

Did more digging today. There are other loans I don't know about. Maybe XH isn't the culprit after all.

In 30 days, I'll have that credit report, and can get to the bottom of this crap.


Me: MH 40s; Him: MH 40s (I had RA)
OW: 30s, moron; one of many
M: 8 yrs
3/13: D'd
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Everything is as it should be.

Posts: 762 | Registered: Oct 2011 | From: Vulcania
Dawn58
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Member # 37656
Default  Posted: 4:02 AM, October 16th (Wednesday)

Nail his ass to the floor. Amazing what these guys think they can get away with!!!


I got into the marriage, because I loved him. I got out of the marriage, because I love me.

Posts: 479 | Registered: Nov 2012 | From: Southern California
Ashland13
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Default  Posted: 8:20 AM, October 16th (Wednesday)

I'm sorry, Vulcanized. Hope you win.

XPervert has loans I didn't know about and blames me saying I would get upset if he told me.

Well, the creditors are circling and they're getting shut down right and left on him and I hope it happens to your X, too.

It's amazing, in a way, that he could manage it with your name but without you knowing? So much paperwork, though I guess we have all different kinds of lenders now?


Ashland 13

A person is a person, no matter how small. -Dr. Suess

Perserverance and spirit have done wonders in all ages.

-George Washington


Posts: 2287 | Registered: Feb 2013 | From: New England
haysuth01
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Default  Posted: 10:43 AM, October 16th (Wednesday)

Nail his sorry fucking ass.

My ex did shit like this too. Luckily he was so afraid I'd expose him (I told him I had evidence that he'd forged my sig on a 2nd mortgage for 45k) that he quickly took out a personal loan to pay it off and avoid it.

I still have no idea where that 45k went. I don't wanna know.


XBS
Divorced 5/07.
DS-7! What?!
Happily remarried, B/G twins (5).

Posts: 220 | Registered: Jul 2010
Crescita
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Member # 32616
Default  Posted: 1:50 PM, October 16th (Wednesday)

Did more digging today. There are other loans I don't know about. Maybe XH isn't the culprit after all.

In 30 days, I'll have that credit report, and can get to the bottom of this crap.

Hope there isn't too much and it is your X. It's so hard to resolve identity theft issues, especially when you can't find the perpetrator.


Posts: 3441 | Registered: Jun 2011 | From: The Valley of the Sun
Vulcanized
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Member # 33523
Default  Posted: 4:18 PM, October 16th (Wednesday)

Don't know what to think. The car loan may or may not be a coincidence. But XH is such a shit heel, of course I'm going to think he did it.

I tried to get my report online again, there were different questions about loans that I don't know about. I hope that it's XH or main OW, the sheer joy of taking felony action against either one of them makes me


Me: MH 40s; Him: MH 40s (I had RA)
OW: 30s, moron; one of many
M: 8 yrs
3/13: D'd
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Everything is as it should be.

Posts: 762 | Registered: Oct 2011 | From: Vulcania
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