Wayward Side
User Topic: Positive Words (videos) for WH's warning..religious content
Member # 15122
Default  Posted: 10:56 AM, October 15th (Tuesday)

These videos were shown to me by a member here who was compassionate about what WH's were going through.

They have powerful messages but have religious content

The simplest thing can be the hardest thing to do....FRM

Posts: 2532 | Registered: Jun 2007 | From: Florida
Member # 26859
Default  Posted: 12:18 PM, October 15th (Tuesday)

Thanks for sharing FRM!

Even if you can separate out the religious motivation, it is still a worthy, valid message. We each travel different paths everyday, but the message still holds. We are awesome.

WH - 44
BW - gerrygirl

Posts: 6099 | Registered: Dec 2009 | From: Boise
New Member
Member # 38057
Default  Posted: 1:38 PM, October 15th (Tuesday)

Thank you so much for sharing these. I really needed them. My struggles lately at IC and MC has been on how my relationship with God has suffered from the deep shame I feel from what I have done. It is not that I ever felt worthy of divine grace, but I have never before felt so unworthy where the man in the mirror can no longer make eye contact with me. Thank you - this message hit the mark with me.

Posts: 41 | Registered: Jan 2013
Member # 15122
Default  Posted: 4:03 PM, October 15th (Tuesday)

Faithful w/Love shared these with me. She thought that these could be beneficial for WH's and she was right.

Mods..can we remove the stop sign please. I'm sorry...I forgot to remove it.

The simplest thing can be the hardest thing to do....FRM

Posts: 2532 | Registered: Jun 2007 | From: Florida
Member # 40762
Default  Posted: 5:54 PM, October 15th (Tuesday)

I am a BS who might could have been a WS if the opportunity came up so I hope it is OK to add these links?

More links....

and The Love Dare

BS - Me 36
WS - Him 35 (almost 36)
Child: son, 6; just learned one on way
DDAY - July 24, 2013 (thousands spent on ex girlfriend)
DDAY2 -Aug. 3, 2013 (proof he slept with her)
R is slow going after TT for 1 month

Posts: 316 | Registered: Sep 2013 | From: US
Member # 39146
Default  Posted: 6:00 PM, October 15th (Tuesday)

I watched all that has been posted here, amazing and so helpful. It brought me to tears. Realizations, appreciations, and understanding,and some enlightenment and breathing room? maybe.
Thank you

BH 39
WW 43
D day November 9, 2012
3 children 22, 8, 6

Posts: 435 | Registered: Apr 2013
Faithful w/Love
Member # 33128
Default  Posted: 8:32 AM, October 16th (Wednesday)

You are all welcome. I wanted them posted and I asked floridaredman to put them on here, because I feel everyone needs to hear those words, because no matter what has been done it can change, and when we feel down we are harder on ourselves then others/and we start to look at ourselves as unworthy and that is NOT true.
Everyone deserves to be loved and know that they are LOVED no matter what. AND that we all change if we just look inward.

BS(ME)40 WH(HIM)38
DD 20 and DS 15
Separated Aug 2012
Moved back home Oct 31 2013
Separated again June 2014. Heading toward divorce.
False R. Still Lying.

"You never know how strong you are until being strong is all you have left"

Posts: 2780 | Registered: Aug 2011
Topic Posts: 7