You are a wonderful parent and raising a strong and independent daughter! I can't tell you how wonderful that is (tho suspect you know ).
I see many young people today that have NO IDEA how to do anything for themselves. They don't know how to cook, clean, do simple sewing repairs, change a tire, plunge a toilet, etc.
Then there is the whole issue with dealing with adversity. Having a strong role model in you is amazing. I learned some strong life lessons from my mother and how she dealt with my father's betrayals. It served me well later in life.
Go YOU! Go DD! Divorced - recovered and hoping to help.
"We're not broken, just bent, and we can learn to love again" ~Pink