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cuppacoffee
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Member # 39313
Default  Posted: 8:38 AM, October 16th (Wednesday)

NOT:

check out the OW's twitter
what she does DOES NOT mean anything to me. Her happiness is built on lies

I am going to:

enjoy my family at the pumpkin patch

love my husband even though he is flawed


How about you?


I'm like a vacuum bag
That holds all that old dirt
Remember that time we said we'd be together forever?
Don't hate me, don't regret me, don't ever forget me
Wherever you go, whatever you do, don't say I never loved you

Posts: 361 | Registered: May 2013
Kelany
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Member # 34755
Default  Posted: 8:42 AM, October 16th (Wednesday)

Take care of my sick husband when he comes home from work. He's fighting a bad cold, which went through all of the kids, so I know it's no fun. (led to pneumonia in one child).

Oddly, I really like being the one to take care of him. Because I know none of those women he was with could ever care for him like I do. I know him inside and outside and I know what comforts him.


BS - Me
SA/FWH Him
DDay 1 - Jul 11
DDay 2 - Jul 12
R Dec 12

Former 80s Icon wishful thinking


Posts: 2031 | Registered: Feb 2012
Skan
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Member # 35812
Default  Posted: 12:38 PM, October 16th (Wednesday)

Good for you, cuppacoffee. BTW, i love your username. One of my guilty pleasures in the morning.

Today, or tonight, I''m going to have a long talk with my FWH that he initiated. Which is wonderful in that I normally have to be the person initiating talks. Which is scary because it''s sorta new territory for me/us.


Imagine a ship trying to set sail while towing an anchor. Cutting free is not a gift to the anchor. You must release that burden, not because the anchor is worthy, but because the ship is.

D-Day, June 10, 2012



Posts: 4785 | Registered: Jun 2012 | From: So California
madsadalone
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Member # 39201
Default  Posted: 12:41 PM, October 16th (Wednesday)

Back to work!

Done being pathetic. Made a plan, getting ducks in a row and moving on with my life...


Me: BS 47
Him:WH 55
M: 27 yrs
DD 4/29/13
3 kids (25,23,22

Posts: 82 | Registered: May 2013
Raven96
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Member # 40298
Default  Posted: 12:46 PM, October 16th (Wednesday)

Rearrange furniture. It turns out that little things make a big difference for me. I swapped the furniture in two rooms, didn't like it, and am now in the process of moving it all back a different way. If anything, I should fall into bed tonight exhausted and without my mind running wild.

All of you sound like you're going to have a TERRIFIC day today!!!!! So glad!!!


Marriage isn't a test, so why cheat?

Posts: 379 | Registered: Aug 2013
Topic Posts: 5