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HeartInADustpan
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Default  Posted: 8:44 AM, October 16th (Wednesday)

Since my posts have been so...ummm...depressive lately, I thought I'd share something really fun KB and I did over the weekend. We made a cake. Doesn't look the greatest, but it was a labor of love. I guess like our M now. It sure isn't perfect, but with time, practice and a lot of work it'll get better.

Edit for me forgetting to link right.

[This message edited by HeartInADustpan at 8:46 AM, October 16th (Wednesday)]


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Kelany
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Default  Posted: 8:52 AM, October 16th (Wednesday)

That's an awesome cake!!! My cakes always look like they should be on cake wrecks, lol


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wifehad5
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Default  Posted: 8:54 AM, October 16th (Wednesday)


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PinkJeepLady
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Default  Posted: 9:02 AM, October 16th (Wednesday)

Sweet! (literally!)
What a great idea to make a cake together and I think it looks fabulous!
Thanks for sharing!


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dameia
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Default  Posted: 10:37 AM, October 16th (Wednesday)

I think it looks great! What a fun idea.


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nowiknow23
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Default  Posted: 10:48 AM, October 16th (Wednesday)

Are you kidding me? That looks amazing! Yay for good times.


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LA44
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Default  Posted: 10:49 AM, October 16th (Wednesday)

Well done! I would not say no to that cake!


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Affair: Fall 2009 - Dec. 2011
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LosferWords
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Default  Posted: 10:50 AM, October 16th (Wednesday)

That is honestly one of the coolest looking cakes I've ever seen! Nicely done!!

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Skan
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Default  Posted: 12:53 PM, October 16th (Wednesday)

That cake is a true Treasure!


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sisoon
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Default  Posted: 4:58 PM, October 16th (Wednesday)

Thanks, Heart. You're still in my thoughts for needing some good times, but I'm really happy to hear life has some ups for you.


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catlover50
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Default  Posted: 5:04 PM, October 16th (Wednesday)

What a cool thing to do together!

And it's a great-looking cake!



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iwillNOT
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Default  Posted: 7:29 PM, October 16th (Wednesday)

Now THAT is an awesome piece of teamwork


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Him: WH, 44
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Married 14 years
Kiddos 2,6,8,10
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jo2love
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Default  Posted: 7:33 PM, October 16th (Wednesday)


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DixieD
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Default  Posted: 9:44 PM, October 16th (Wednesday)

Awesome cake!

Nice work, Heart and KB.

My husband and I love cakewrecks and have joked about trying one of our own. I'm sure ours would be a cakewreck but it would be a lot of fun trying.


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